‘What is meant for you will find you.’
I’ve always been torn between these two ideas:
‘What is meant for you will find you’ and ‘if you want it, go and get it.’
So here is what I believe: If it is meant to be.. it is also up to YOU. Because it still requires YOU. So go and get it.
Life brings opportunities, people and lessons.. but you’re in charge. You decide what happens next.
Hear me out..
Everything happens for a reason. There are no meaningless encounters in life. Speaking of important encounters.
Some people enter your life for a reason, and it is up to you to discover what that reason is.
That, for me, is the ‘meant to be’ part.
The universe handled that part in its own mysterious way. Always at the right moment. Always when your soul needed it most. Some lesson your soul needed to learn.
And then.. what happens next depends on you.
You decide whether someone remains part of your life.. and in what way.
That is the moment when believing that everything happens for a reason requires action from you.
If you do not believe it.. none of this will mean anything to you.
But if you do believe it.. then become aware and act accordingly.
Choose your priorities carefully.
When you meet someone who brings peace to your mind and calm to your soul.. someone who reaches parts of your heart no one else ever touched.. someone who feels strangely familiar to your soul.. nurture that connection with care.
Be grateful life gave you the opportunity to meet someone who is rare, unique.. in a world full of people who never made your soul feel seen.
Again.. choose your priorities.. and let your heart guide you instead of letting fear control you.
Sometimes it will not be easy or smooth. Sometimes you will need patience. Sometimes it will be challenging..
BUT DON’T LET THAT BECOME YOUR EXCUSE to do nothing.
Many loves are lost not because the feelings disappear.. but because nobody does anything.
Because dear, love is not a word.. it is an action.
Most people walk away the moment love becomes difficult. Or they hide behind ‘if it is meant to be.. it will happen’ while doing absolutely nothing. And I’m like.. dude, it already happened!
Maybe you should consider rolling the dice as well and let chance decide your life for you.. or whether it is ‘meant to be’.
I hope you can read the irony.
Express how you feel and stop leaving important things to chance.
You see now why sometimes ‘what is meant to be will be’ is simply not enough.
Sometimes you need to fight for what truly matters to you. You need to put in the work..
Question your beliefs and do not walk away from something your soul knows is worth fighting for.. because dear.. what kind of love is it if it is not worth fighting for?
And maybe it will not work out. Even if you gave it your all.
BUT maybe it will work out.. and maybe seeing it and experiencing it will become the greatest love of your life.
Always give 100%.. not because you expect guarantees, but because you want to live without regrets.
Not because of them.. but because of you — you need to know you truly tried in order to avoid future regrets.
You do not want to look back one day wondering ‘what if’.
Oh.. regret feels like a very heavy thing to carry.
Be the kind of person who truly shows up for love.
Never be afraid to show how much you care. Because love should never feel emotionally lazy.
Don’t let the ego get in the way. Be the one who loves honestly and without hesitation.
All or nothing.
Let your heart lead the way.. but keep your eyes open.
And if there is no reciprocity.. then that absence, that silence.. is the answer itself. Then maybe the answer is that person is not meant for you. Don’t force it.
Maybe what is meant for you is waiting for one thing only: your courage.
Because.. the greatest tragedy is not loving and losing. It is having love in front of you and doing nothing about it.
This isn’t the only text. But today, it might be enough.