‘The right man for you will move mountains to be with you, he won’t hide behind them.’
Dear all.. the person who truly wants you will not look for excuses explaining why they cannot do something.. they will look for ways to make things happen instead. Because they want you. True effort leaves very little room for excuses. You deserve presence and consistency, not empty words, confusion or barriers.
People who truly want you do not leave you guessing. They leave you feeling chosen.
And this is a sign you should follow.. a sign as clear as a crystal-blue sky on a sunny day.
It is another thing entirely if you choose not to see reality. If instead of enjoying the warmth of the sun.. you choose to stare directly at it until it blinds you.
Yes, we are human, we like to romanticize things. That is okay. But be aware of it. Do not fall in love with potential. Accept reality instead. Do not ignore intuition and choose what you think you want, even though your intuition is screaming: NO, that’s not right for you!
Your intuition is a powerful warning system; ignoring those loud, internal alarms often leads to heartbreak.
Reality is simple, much like life itself. Not easy.. but simple. Open your heart but do not forget to open your eyes too and to listen to your gut. Consistent actions reveal reality.
And.. we live in a slightly strange and chaotic world.. where it often seems more important whether you are HE, SHE or THEY.. than who you actually are as a person. The priority is given to fleeting trends and surface-level identifiers, rather than a person’s character and personal core values. And that can be entirely another topic.
It seems that we live in a world full of men who have become weak in character and women who compete with those same men in places where competition was never supposed to exist. The dynamics have become so mixed that sometimes you meet men waiting for women to move mountains to be with them instead.
And there is a reason why a man is a man and a woman is a woman. Men and women possess inherent, differing strengths. We are here to complement each other, not to compete with one another. Know who you are and what you want.
A man and a woman should work together as a team rather than compete with each other.
And no, I am not talking about strict traditional roles here. It is about feminine and masculine energy, it is about biology. It is about complementarity.
That’s why, dear woman, if you think he is not ready.. then he probably isn’t ready. Do not expect him to move mountains. Don’t force it! You should never ask for it. It is given and shown.
When a man is truly interested in you there will be no need to do the pursuing.
One of the natural expressions of femininity is love, care and creating a home. One of the natural expressions of masculinity is to pursue, protect and provide security.
However.. in today’s world, not everyone likes to hear this.. some will say that this is rigid and that relationships have evolved significantly. Proof, please. People call it evolution. I am not convinced it is. Sometimes it looks much more like confusion and retrogression than progress.
Because dating dynamics and roles are deeply personal.
A woman can only fully relax into her feminine energy when she feels safe enough to do so. And it is only possible if a man allows her to feel safe by embodying his masculine energy. The rest.. how you would like your relationship to look depends on the two of you — relationships can take many different forms.
Ultimately, as long as both partners communicate clearly, feel respected, validated and fulfilled, and act as a team, that is what matters.
Never push someone to meet you on the bridge. If they truly want to meet you there, they will run toward it on their own.
Remember that if someone truly wants you.. you should never have to chase them.. because you will naturally become a priority in their life. They won’t leave you wondering where you stand in their lives.. they will show it to you, they will make a place for you in it! Only cowards play guessing games.
No matter how much you think you love someone.. if they are not ready to take action, to take a risk, to be and stay with you.. even if they say they are madly in love with you.. know that they are not right for you. Love is not words, but action.
You deserve extraordinary love.. love that you do not need to convince that you are worth loving, love that will be ready.
You deserve the love you give. Never settle for less than the active commitment you bring to the table.
LOVE DOES NOT HIDE BEHIND MOUNTAINS. LOVE MOVES THEM.
This isn’t the only text. But today, it might be enough.