Good morning you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
A conversation about how you feel isn’t supposed to end up in an argument.
Dear, if someone opens to you about how they feel and you get angry about it.. you have an ego problem and you don’t know how to communicate. How can you be possibly angry if someone speaks about how they feel? Whether their feelings involve you or not.. listen to understand. It’s about them, not about you! You don’t respect their honesty or feelings.. which can only cause distance!
If they are wrong about you.. again.. there is no place for anger.. but communication.
That’s why many people are afraid to open themselves. They are afraid of the reactions of others. Which is so wrong!
Anger is just a response of something deeper that has been triggered first. That’s the part that concerns the one who is angry they should work on.
So.. communicate. Express your feelings in order to try to understand each other so you both can learn something new about each other. At the same time you will work on you and the relationship, always trying to make it better.
Stay away from those who think you’re arguing every time you try to express yourself. Not only is it exhausting, but you need someone who speaks your soul language.. so you don’t spend your precious time and energy trying to translate your soul to those who simply don’t want to reach you.
First and foremost: BE the person you wish to have in your life.
Before you start demanding, wishing, make sure to give the same. It’s completely fine to wish all the best for you AS LONG AS YOU GIVE THE SAME.
Only after you learn how to be happy and independent alone(I’m not talking about money at all), you will be ready to be in a relationship, sharing that happiness with someone.
Your life & happiness are your responsibility.
Many people are looking for help, not for a partner. Remember your partner is not there to entertain you. Go to the amusement park instead. Your partner is not your therapist nor your parent.
Your partner should be YOUR PARTNER, that’s why the relationship is called PARTNERSHIP. Look at your partner as your equal.
Choosing your partner is one of the biggest decisions you have to make.
Choose the one who have the same vision and values as you have.. and communicate.
Speak openly about things. Good or bad. There will be fights, but respect must not be lacking. Be honest. Be there for each other. Be faithful. Build love and trust. Make rules for your relationship because love is unconditional but relationship should have limits. You both should respect those rules.
Remember you deserve the love you give!
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🏻🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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