Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
I cannot stress enough that healthy communication is the foundation of any kind of relationship. A HEALTHY communication.. I would especially emphasize that.
And that good, healthy communication doesn’t just happen, you have to work on that. You have to learn what communication is.
Because if you want your relationship to succeed, to grow and to go to the next level, you have to talk about EVERYTHING with your partner. It doesn’t matter whether you agree or disagree on something.
‘In order to be in a healthy relationship you have to talk about the things that bother you.. even if you agree to disagree.’
It will be challenging..
And..
You must face any challenge! I mean, you don’t have to, it’s your decision.
But.. you should never be afraid of expressing our thoughts, feelings. It is an obvious sign that your relationship lacks communication.. aaand other things too.
People are afraid to communicate openly, honestly. They are masters in living in a lie.
First thing.. you must understand that your partner should be your person, your best friend.. so it is never you against them but you two vs challenge.
‘You can’t expect people to read your mind when something is bothering you. Nobody got time for temper tantrums, speak up.’
Remember.. We all have fears, doubts.. but you gotta do what’s right! We usually know when something is wrong, when something doesn’t feel right, or simply if we don’t like something.. but very often we refuse to speak about it, instead, we ignore it, most of time because we fear other people’s (partner’s) reactions.. and that’s not right!
It’s so “easy” to ignore it, but that’s not right! But it can’t be easier..
Hence face your fears. Face your challenges. Many people do not do this because.. why?! Because it is a hard work.. so it’s much easier to neglect it. But again.. it is not easier.
People fear facing their fears. By choosing to ignore your fears, things can only get worse because you suppress your emotions. You become unhappy. You start to blame everything else, but yourself. Either way blame doesn’t help. This is just for you to understand that it can’t be easier.
It can only start to negatively affect your life, your relationship and the people around you. Your relationship becomes unhealthy, just because you have decided to ignore red flags. Just because you refused to communicate. To speak up or yourself.
A healthy communication is the foundation of any kind of relationship. We all have practice it, because there’s always a place for improvement.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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