Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
All relationships mirror the relationship you have with yourself.
Hence.. Speaking about past relationships.. there are no wrong or right decisions, wrong or right relationships, right or wrong love.. simply because, they were perfect for us at that point. Something we needed. Otherwise you wouldn’t be with those partners.
‘Sometimes two people, no matter how hard they try to make it work, just aren’t meant to be. Love can do strange things to you but it shouldn’t ever let you forget your worth. Trust me, when you least expect it, someone great will come along. Someone that will teach you all the things you got wrong about love.
Some people are just here to teach us a lesson.
We must not regret these loves, but be thankful for them. When you finally cross paths with the right person everything will just feel different. You’ll just know. Be patient. Please don’t settle for less, because you deserve the world.’
Everything happens for a reason.
If you open your mind, you will realise why something happened. Whether we talk about decisions we make, people we meet.. so whenever you think that you had some bad relationship.. try to think what that relationship was supposed to teach you?
Try to think that sometimes we are here to teach each other some lessons. Did you learn something from your past or every next relationship was more or less the same? Or people you meet are more or less the same?
Change starts with us. If you don’t like your relationship of people you’re surrounded with.. then.. be open for changes. You deserve the life you dream of.
Do you live a fulfilling life? And love.. Do you receive the love you give? Do you live the love you were always dreamed of? Happy? Do you have supportive friends? Etc.
Remember: All relationships mirror the relationship you have with yourself.
Believe. Learn. Change. Grow. Never settle for less than you give. Wait for the one who will worship the ground you walk on.. You deserve the love you give.
‘The partners we choose to date are reflections of our own self love or lack thereof. Relationships are our mirrors and those we choose to have around us reveals more about us and what we believe about ourselves.’
That’s why there is no wrong time – right person, or opposite. There are no wrong partners for us. There’s no such thing as a “failed” relationship.
A break up/divorce is not a failure but a positive decision to start afresh, to feel better, to find better, to be happy.. that’s the part of personal growth and learning about self love.
So.. It’s not about time, darling, it’s about us. We choose them.
Every single person we decided to be with was/is the RIGHT one for us, and usually they are a living manifestation of what we want/need and who we are.
Simply because every one of them was exactly what we needed at some point in our lives. If someone was wrong.. we wouldn’t choose to date that person, right? Looking back, we can see the context on lot of them. Think this: what they were supposed to teach you?
We change and so do our needs. Don’t be ashamed of your past. Don’t think you have wasted your time with someone. First of all, you’re wasting your present moment by thinking that way. Then.. Remember, they were your choice and something you needed at the moment.
All relationships mirror the relationship you have with yourself. Especially your partner. If you don’t like what you see or how you feel.. read the second paragraph bellow the second photo again.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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