Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Do you have a habit of making quick assumptions?
Assumptions create misunderstandings and act like an emotional poison and prison.. don’t be afraid to ask for clarification! COMMUNICATE!
Whenever you don’t understand something or someone.. ask questions! Always! Even if you think you understood what was said, repeat what you understood. It will happen that, in fact, you did not understand.
It seems much easier for people to assume things, to overthink, to make decisions or form an opinion of someone based on those assumptions. And it all works like poison. both on you and on others.
It seems they know better than that person what they think, want, need.
People seem to like to complicate things!
Why simple, when complicated is possible.
But as always.. many are afraid to ask questions. Or.. better to say: they are afraid of answers. So, they choose to overthink, to assume things creating possible and impossible scenarios. Consequently, after all that not so useful thinking even a smallest problem looks huge like a mountain.
People are afraid to ask questions because they fear judgments. They are afraid of being stupid in someone else’s eyes.
So very often they say and pretend to understand something even tho they have no clue what you’re talking about.
Oh.. I’m completely fine and comfortable to be stupid in other’s people eyes. I’m completely comfortable with that.
That’s why I ask questions always. Simply, if I want to know something or to understand something.. I’ll ask you questions until I understand it.
Also, if I need clarification on something, and that feeling does not give me peace, I will always ask to clear things up.
Ask questions. Make your life as easier as possible.
‘Don’t make assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.’
Remember you truly don’t know until you ask! Assumptions create misunderstandings and act like an emotional poison and prison.. don’t be afraid to ask for clarification! COMMUNICATE!
Again: Ask questions. Make your life as easier as possible.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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