Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Before you tell them or ask or complain why they don’t treat you like a king/queen anymore, ask yourself: Do I treat them like a king/queen? Communicate.
Every why has a wherefore. Every action has a reaction. Always.
We all know that almost every relationship at the beginning is filled with attention, a crazy desire to spend time with each other, expressing what we feel, passion, showing care, etc.. which does not mean, first of all, that every relationship will turn into love or something stable, because of it and by itself.
Secondly, don’t confuse lust, infatuation with love.
And many do. Because when all those initial, exciting feelings start to disappear, people think that love is over. And in fact, it hasn’t even started.
When the first argument or disagreement arises, people get scared, retreat and the only thing they want is for everything to return to the way it was at the beginning. And that is impossible. Disagreements are completely natural and instead of suppressing yourself, because you define it as something ‘negative’ or you try to ‘erase’ them by wanting to return to the ‘old time’, try to face it and move on to something ‘new’.
That’s how you can see if love can exist or if it’s just an illusion. Love is acceptance and understanding. Respect.
It is the only way you’ll know in which direction your relationship can go. Because the relationship builds, and the love deepens. And the two of you need to connect through communication, honesty and openness and in this way form a strong bond in your relationship.
On the other hand, if you suppress your self and some dissatisfactions, disagreements, then, after a while, arguments will continue on a much larger scale, so you will wonder if you even knew that person with whom you felt all those feelings at the beginning of the relationship.
And that is expected, because for a simple reason, few people enter a relationship being who they are. People wear masks in order to be accepted, loved, show themselves in the best light, and these masks cannot be worn for long. At the beginning, everyone is in the ecstasy of lust, pretending to be kings and queens, treating each other as such.. And then when the masks fall.. who is really the king and queen and where did all this attention go?
With this being said, always start from yourself. Above all, be who you are, and give yourself 100%. If you want the relationship to be special, then you have to make it special. Both of you.
Love is given, not expected. If you don’t get it in return, then there’s no point in staying together.
Whenever there is a misunderstanding, communicate. Always communicate so that there are no misunderstandings.
Things are simple. Don’t complicate it.
If you want to be treated like royalty, first of all be royalty, and treat your partner that way. If you want someone to be an angel in your life, then don’t make hell in theirs.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏💙
Love and namaste,
Irina
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