Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
The danger of being always available. Let’s talk about relationships, and being always available, whenever someone needs you.
Sis or bro, just because they keep coming back into your life doesn’t mean they care. It means you’re accessible and you need to change that. Yep.. sis or bro.. it doesn’t matter, this applies to both women and men.
First of all.. you should learn the difference between when they want you and when they need you. When they love you, because of you, and when they “love” you because of them, their need of you = how you make them feel.
What happens most of the time is.. when they come back, it is not because of you.. but because of the feeling you gave them when you two were together. They know where they felt loved.
That’s not love for you they feel, but their need of you. That’s selfishness.
If you take them back and keep continue to treat them like a priority, even tho they don’t treat you the same way.. who wouldn’t want to come back to you, for f.cking sake?
The question is.. if they treat you like an option and you are always there for them no matter what.. why do you do that?
If they only look for you, when they need you.. it’s not about them, it’s about you and why do you allow that? Do you see yourself like an option for others?
You’re the one who needs to know your limits. Keep in mind that what you allow it will continue.
Ask yourself this: Do you feel loved? Or do you feel exhausted?
Keep this in mind too, as your answer will tell you what you should do.
If you think that they are coming back because they love you.. Do you feel loved? Really loved, like you always wanted to be loved?
Be honest with yourself.
If you love someone set them free.. if they want to leave.. set them free. Because.. love is free. Love knows commitment, not attachment.
And make sure that you feel free too. Not always available. There is a huge difference between these two.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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