Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻

Being different? Speaking about personalities, if you feel different, or that you don’t fit in a box, please don’t you dare to think that you are hard to love.. or that you are too much.. or whatever else people might say to you..

If you feel different, it’s because you are! We are all different. So never shrink yourself for someone else’s comfort.

You are who you are.. take your time to get to know yourself and make sure that you don’t look at yourself through their eyes.

Most people tend to categorise you or to put some label on you, just because they don’t understand you.

Being different doesn’t mean that you’re good or bad.. it means that you’re being yourself.. but it’s easier to say oh he/she is crazy, stay away from them.. than trying to understand them. And.. maybe learn something new. But, oh.. who has time to learn new things..

Judging is not something you need in your life. To be judged or to judge others.

The most important thing.. try not to be one of those who tells others that they are hard to love… maybe you’re hard to love or maybe you’re not capable of loving them in the right way. So instead of judging, try to understand them. If you ‘can’t’ understand them.. let them go. Just.. don’t judge.

Everything is always vice versa.. when you point finger at others you have three fingers pointing back at you.

Remember this: if people are intimidated by your strength, that’s just a reflection of their weakness. They will usually try to drag you down on their level. They will try to break your spirit, just because they refuse to grow.. That is still their weakness, be aware of this. Don’t let that affect you. They are not your people.

Thus.. Be kind (to yourself) and step back. Let them fight their battles.

And.. keep in mind that if you are saying that someone is too deep.. know that you’re saying at the same time that you’re too shallow. Superficial.

Think before you speak.

Story of my life and my answer to those who are intimidated by me and my strength: “Of course I am not worried about intimidating men. The type of man who will be intimidated by me is exactly the type of man I have no interest in.”

Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🏻🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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Irina

So, let me introduce myself. My name is Irina Vujaklija and I was born in Belgrade on 31 January 1979. Who am I? Love. I know, you will roll your eyes.. But that is how it is. Discovering my true self wasn’t an easy process. Constantly working on myself, learning by seeking answers to many questions, I have managed to overcome very complicated life situations. Among other things, my severe motorcycle accident in 2004. A life altering moment in just one second.