Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
Try not to confuse loyalty with attachment, and attachment with love, as well. The difference between loyalty and attachment is huge.
When you are attached to something/someone it has to do with fear and dependency. It has nothing to do with loving another person, but your needs. Selfishness. I know, I know, mind blowing.. but let me put this way..
You’re attached to someone for what they can give you.
When you’re loyal to someone, you’re loyal to that person for who they are and for what they stand for. You’re sharing the same beliefs.
It starts with self love. When you fill yourself with love.. you will share it, and that’s the purest kind of love. You love that person for who they are and there’s no attachment that comes from fear.
When it comes from fear, it’s because you’re looking for another person to complete you. It has nothing to do with love. It has to do with being attached for what they give you and being afraid of losing them.
So.. When you learn how to love yourself, when being alone feels so good.. then you’re ready to love another.
It’s about what you can share and give others.
But when you’re empty.. what can you give? You will always look for others to fill you up. That “search” will come from fear which will create attachment, that will only drain you and another person.
And this applies to any kind of relationship.. So ask yourself are you connected (mentally etc) to your partner/friend or attached for some reason (need..)? Or is your partner connected to you.. or attached for their reasons?
You will know by the way you feel. Drained? Content?
Try not to confuse attachment with love.
Attachment is all about dependency, fears. Fear of losing them, because you need them. If it is about needing someone, it means more selfishness (egoism) than loving another. The same goes for loyalty.
When you love someone you love them for who they are and they feel free around you. There is no attachment but commitment. Connection.
Hu-ge difference.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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