Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
‘Did he lie to you about who he was? Or did you lie to yourself about who he was?’ Or she. Gender doesn’t matter. It applies to all. Because it’s not about them but YOU!
We don’t see others as they are but who we are.
Let’s start from the beginning. It all starts with honesty (and self-love).
First and foremost, you have to be honest.. with yourself!
To be aware of yourself and who you are.
Do they lie to you, or do you create an illusion of them..? Be honest with yourself!
If you are honest with yourself and you like someone, you will accept that person as they are.
You won’t ignore red flags.. That’s your gut telling you that something is wrong. You will be aware of it, so trying to paint a new picture of someone will rarely happen. No matter how much you like them. Maybe you will be cautious, but you won’t be “blind”.
The same way goes.. if they lie to you of who they are.. oh man.. energy never lies. Again, you will see through them, just by listening to your gut feeling. You won’t pay attention to their words, but their energy. Energy never lies! Even though they lied to you.. all lies come to an end!
And I’m sure we’ve all had similar situations. But.. when you discovered the lies, then.. what did you do?
The thing is that way too many people are disconnected with their true self, so they aren’t even honest with themselves. If they aren’t in alignment with themselves, then they will think one thing, say something different and god knows what they will do.
Many usually create a fake image of themselves, based on what society wants them to be, or to please others, to leave an impression.. They do that just because they want to be accepted, liked. And that is the wrong way of achieving ‘to be accepted and loved’.
Hence, if they aren’t honest with themselves, they won’t be honest with what they say, they’d rather say the things you want to hear. But, again.. it is not about them, but you! Do you believe them and why?
It is so rare to find a REAL person today. So, are you real? You will know whether you’re real or not, simply by answering the question: are you true to yourself? And you have to be hecking honest with yourself.. this is the point where many people fail.
Having this in mind.. if people lie to themselves.. of course, they can’t be real. They can’t be real with you, either. Hence why there are way too many relationships based on lies. They may seem happy on the outside.. but within.. they’re falling apart.
Remember: We are only as blind as we want to be! If you want to believe in lies aka to live in a lie.. even if someone shows their true colours and you still create an illusion.. dear.. it’s not about them but you. Don’t blame THEM for your blindness. Don’t blame them for lying to you.. you’re responsible for believing the lies.
It all starts with ourselves. Check with yourself how honest you are.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, y beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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