Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
If you find love draining it’s because you date someone you have to raise or someone you have to heal. Don’t get me wrong, love heals. But love is not if one expects from you to heal them, needing you for their selfish reasons.
Because..
Love does not leave you exhausted, but fulfilled.
So.. Did you sign up to be a partner or a parent or a therapist?
‘I won’t ever tell you what you can and can’t do. I’ve signed up to be your partner, not your parent. If you wanna put yourself in a position that can ruin what we have, then so be it. What I will tell you is what I like and don’t like. This is where compromise and respect come in.’
You can’t control someone or expecting them to behave according to your wishes! You either accept someone for who they are or.. let them go! You shouldn’t control or teach them how to behave. That’s not your job.
We are all able to distinguish between right and wrong. What should we do and shouldn’t. We all have common sense, try using it.
We all should heal our past wounds before committing to someone in the future. Or at least being aware of them and work actively on healing.
We all should learn what respect, honesty & responsibility means, and act accordingly.
So.. Be careful who you start dating with.. a lot of people ain’t looking for love, but help.
You choose someone to be your partner.. not your parent or therapist. Neither your partner should serve to entertain you. You’re not in circus.
That is why it is called a PARTNERSHIP. Two complete people who unite to built their future together.
If you find your love draining, you are free to leave.. But not just to leave your partnership, this applies to any kind of relationship.
‘So so so important to remember that it is okay to say “you know what, this isn’t making me happy” and walk away from whatever it is or whoever it is that is keeping you from the happiness you deserve.’
Remember that you are free to walk away from anyone who takes away your joy.. but.. so are they! We all deserve happiness.
Life’s too short to waste your time spending on places or with people who don’t see your worth.
We are all free to choose. Choose to stay or choose to leave. It’s up to you. The only place you should choose to stay is the place where you feel happy. The only person you choose to stay with is the one who makes you feel loved, adored.
Choose people who choose you! Be with the one you don’t have to raise! You need those who inspire you, who make you feel good about yourself. Choose those who will love you even more on those days when you struggle to love yourself.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🏻🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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