The difference between being patient and wasting your time?

Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻

The difference between being patient and wasting your time? You gotta know the difference between being patient and wasting your time!

Let’s start with this quick reminder: ‘You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.’

Seize the day, and start reading.. or better to say WRITING the new book.

For many… sometimes it can be very difficult to recognize who they should go through the storms to see the sun and the rainbow, and who they need to let go of because they can be toxic to them.

And dear.. NO ONE can tell you this and decide it for you.. it’s up to you to feel and decide when to have patience. Or not.

But.. thanks to experiences and learning from them, if you learn to follow your heart, intuition it’s much easier to spot that difference, simply by how you feel.. because.. Energy? Energy never lies. Asking yourself the right questions is crucial, too.

I will give you some guidelines..

First of all, don’t fall in love with potential. Don’t create an illusion.. Face reality.

Then.. we are all different. Accept the person as they are. Choose the one you can grow with, not the one you need to raise.

Then..

For an instance..

We all go through life dealing with stuff. Sometimes you will meet someone you really like, and at that point they might face some difficulties. If you really like them, help them go through that, just by being there for them. Patience. Love is another name for patience.

Don’t give up on them just because they are not at their best. Think vice versa.. How would you feel if someone gives up on you when you struggle? Keep this in mind. If someone gives up on you during difficulties.. they didn’t love you in the first place.

When you love someone, you see their essence not their struggles. If you choose to give up.. obviously, there’s not much love to begin with.

On the other hand.. people who are not sure how they feel about you, sending you mixed signals.. then dear, you must be sure about them. Or those who are there for you one day, and the next day you don’t hear from them.. etc. again, accept it.. don’t force anyone or anything.. if it doesn’t flow.. rather let it go.

In case of disrespect, mistreatment, do I even need to say what to do? However.. there are situations when some can hurt us without being aware of it. COMMUNICATE, speak up.. but keep in mind that only changed behaviour is true apology.

In case you have decided to have patience, you are the one who sets the boundaries by when. What matters is that the reason for patience comes from and because of love and by no means to blame someone tomorrow for how you did it for them and they turn out ungrateful.

So..

Pay attention to how you feel, pay attention to all signals and red flags.. listen to your gut.. and never regret anything.. don’t regret it even when you think you’ve lost time.

You gave yourself with pure heart and energy, and that’s what counts! So, take it like a lesson and experience for the future.

Good night beautiful souls.. Time is the most important thing we have, and you should be very mindful who you give it to! As well your love. You must be very picky when choosing your partner and above all: BE the one you want in your life.

So.. Don’t go after a man, woman.. Unless you think they deserve your attention. Know the difference.. who deserves your attention and who doesn’t.
Don’t even run after the bus, others will come..
Pursue your dreams not people!