Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Don’t hold on desperately to people just because you think you have to. No, you don’t have to. Disconnection from certain people can be a real blessing. Rather, ask yourself how you feel, then reevaluate your beliefs and your surroundings.. are you in harmful relationships?
There are many beliefs that we live by that not only do not serve us, but bring us harm.
That is why it is necessary to be in alignment with yourself and to listen to yourself, how you feel.
Then to change your beliefs for those that really serve you and bring you good.
Only one of those beliefs is that we have to be friends with someone just because we’ve known each other our whole life. And then regardless of the fact that friendship is not good for you, you continue to be friends with someone, because hey, that’s how it should be. Who is going to look for new friends now?!
Then, when you tolerate someone’s behavior that shows a lack of respect, love and yet you remain in such relationships, marriages.
Apart from the beliefs we inherited, fear also plays a big role.
It’s up to you to see why you choose relationships that don’t bring you anything good, to find your answer and then a solution.
The starting point is always to connect with yourself, to learn to love and respect yourself. Then to set boundaries, which of course come from a place of love, not ego. Then you learn to accept people just as they are, as well as their choices.
Don’t expect you from others, don’t look at the potential, but accept the reality, both people and the situation. Don’t expect people to give you explanations for their bad actions towards you. Always ask, but don’t expect either sincerity or an answer. Don’t expect someone to apologize and recognize their bad actions towards you in order to get closure and move on with your life.
Rather, always be the one who gives the closure, and thus peace of heart and mind.. And get away from everything that makes your life difficult. Sometimes we don’t even have that complete feeling of how much someone makes life difficult for us, until we eliminate that person from our life. And then you feel the lightness and the weight you were carrying. Needlessly.
Keep this in mind please:
You don’t owe anyone anything!
Nobody owes you anything.
Life doesn’t owe you anything.
BUT, YOU OWE YOURSELF EVERYTHING! And by that I mean, above all, love, understanding and peace.
Disconnect and release everything that does not bring you good. You don’t owe anyone an explanation, UNLESS you think it’s necessary. It’s up to you to feel who deserves it and why. Or not. Also, if they are interested, they will ask.
Other people will also disconnect form you, let you go. They also don’t owe you any explanation. It is up to them whether they will give it to you or not. Therefore, if you are interested, ASK.
Be responsible for yourself, not for others.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏💙
Love and namaste,
Irina
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