Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Let’s talk more about loyalty. Respect. Trust.
Do you expect loyalty from your partner? Are you loyal to your partner?
‘If someone is texting your partner, it’s because your partner is welcoming it. it’s a reflection of how they are carrying on behind your back.’
If someone is texting your partner, and they’re welcoming it by participating and continuing the conversation in inappropriate way, “forgetting” to say they’re in a relationship or marriage, then, darling, you need a new partner. But this also applies to you.
I only respect a man that respects me when I’m not around. The one who is loyal behind my back. Integrity! My man’s loyalty shouldn’t depend on my presence! It’s that simple.
We live in a very superficial world, with many unhappy couples who stay together but cheat on each other. Sad, but true.
Of course.. we don’t go around having labels on our foreheads: single/in a relationship. Thus.. it’s natural for people to approach you, if they find you attractive.. they will want more! And that is OKAY.
It’s theirs to try, to ask you out etc, BUT it’s yours to say that you’re in a relationship/marriage! It doesn’t matter whether your relationship blossoms or not at the moment.
It’s called RESPECT! But.. only a person who knows what self-respect means will respect others.
Another fact.. Can you fall in love with someone else even if you’re in a relationship?
Of course, that you can! It happens.. and that is also OKAY.
And it is an obvious sign that something is not working in your current relationship.
BUT (I love my buts) before you go any further, be responsible enough, sit down and talk to your partner.
Be mature and responsible enough and find a solution before you go any further with other person. See what problem is and find a solution. You can also find a solution in divorce/break up.. so, find a solution before you hurt others!
How much do you love and respect your partner if you message others? How would you feel if your partner does this to you?
Do you expect loyalty from your partner? Are you loyal to your partner?
‘Stop liking other women half naked pics on instagram if you’re in a relationship. Stop flirting, commenting, emojiing, & entertaining other women who isn’t your woman. You are disrespecting her, and making her look stupid. If you’re not ready to commit, give real man a chance.’
AND.. This applies to both men and women. And.. What da f.k are you doing in other people’s inboxes if you’re in a relationship? Oh.. don’t tell me, you’re talking about business, right?
If you’re unhappy in a relationship sit down and talk about it. Fix it. Break up and then do whatever da f.k you want.
First and foremost.. love, respect & trust are foundation of any relationship. LOYALTY!
Do you expect loyalty from your partner? Are you loyal to your partner?
You shouldn’t teach others basics.. it’s something we all must know. Simply by using common sense. We all know the difference between what feels right or not. If you’re still not sure, which I doubt, then ask yourself: “Would I like someone to do this to me?”
However.. it happens often.. it seems that many people don’t know what basic manners and education are. The reason why is.. they don’t respect themselves so it’s impossible for them to respect others.
So.. when you feel like your partner may not have enough responsibility and respect for you, tell them how you feel. If they don’t change their behaviour despite what you said, understand they don’t value you.
You can’t force someone to respect you, but you must respect yourself and walk away.
I wonder how many couples would still stay together if they switch their phones for a day. Or per hour.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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