Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Don’t awake someone’s love without the intention of loving them!
Please, trust the vibes you get, energy, actions, not words! People lie, their energy never! But most importantly, don’t be a liar and don’t play with feelings of another person, don’t awake someone’s love without the intention of loving them!
Pay attention on how someone treats you.. how they treat you is how they feel about you. Trust them!
‘They swear they don’t want to lose you, yet act like they don’t want to keep you.’
I wish people would just be honest and say how they feel, their intentions.. anything! But.. the reality is quite different.
Many of them are playing stupid immature games, playing with other people’s emotions, leaving them to believe in empty words and promises. They are empty so they have nothing else to offer.
They will tell you the most beautiful fairy tales to keep you around, feeding on your energy, on your love, without giving it back to you.
They will make promises, and then break them.. so when you point that out, they will get upset blaming you for asking for too much.
They are like black void sucking up anything or anyone in, to make themselves feel better for a moment. Cowardice at its finest.
They are great at giving you just enough hope to keep you holding onto nothing.
So, please recognize them and stay away from anything that isn’t love.
People lie, their energy and actions never!
I’m begging you, stop giving other people power to decide, instead of you, what kind of relationship you want! Stop participating in manipulation games! And don’t be a manipulator.
Make sure to start a relationship with true intentions of commiting and everything that comes with a relationship and love.
Ask yourself: Do you really want to date him/her or are you just lonely?
Just one of the questions we must ask ourselves before we start a relationship.
Because not only do you become responsible for your life, but also for your partner’s as well as for the relationship you are about to start building.
In other words, your choices, actions will have an impact on everything.. they will determine the future. Both your own & your partner’s, of course, and vice versa.
I wish people were more aware of this.
As a result of not being aware.. very often people jump into relationships for sake of it.
They feel lonely and of course, they don’t think that they are responsible for their emotions and feelings.. they think that the solution to that loneliness lies in having a partner.
They usually look for others to complete them, making other people responsible for their own happiness, joy. Very often they don’t look to love someone & to be truly loved.. they look for someone to fill that void.
And such a relationship cannot triumph in love, as long as the partners are unconscious. Such a relationship will triumph with an unhealthy, exhausting connection and a harmful atmosphere.
Love is built. As well as the relationship. But it must be built on sincere feelings.
Not only do people jump into relationships, escaping from themselves, but they also stay in a relationship/marriage avoiding confrontation with themselves.
Working on oneself is difficult, but it is necessary. Waking up is almost always painful, but that pain is necessary. Still people decide to do what seems ‘easier’; they stay where they are familiar with situations, habits, lifestyle, without changing anything.
Thus they continue to live destroying their lives and the lives of others. Because they don’t know any other way, and they resist the change.
I will ask this.. is it really easier to live like that? There’s nothing more painful than giving someone responsibility for your happiness and staying in an unhealthy relationship. And for another, feeling that burden is so exhausting! So is it easier?
Do what is right, hold yourself accountable! Your life is your responsibility!
Being alone is not the same as being lonely. Only when you learn to be alone and ok with that, you will be ready for a relationship! Only then will the relationship be healthy & complementary instead of being in a form of unhealthy attachment.
Start loving yourself, know ‘needs’ in the relationships. Be aware and present in a relationship.
Joy, love and peace are found within and are there to be shared, not to be expected or stolen from another.
Please, once again: don’t awake someone’s love without the intention of loving them!
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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