Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Don’t expect “you” from people!
Do you expect from someone to change just because you wish so? And.. do you change just because others wish so?
Keep in mind that you can’t change people when YOU want them to change. We all change when we want to change.
‘People are who they are. You can’t force someone to be who you want them to be. If you choose to stay, do it because you can accept them, not because you think you can change them.’
And.. We all change, but very often in different ways. Change is inevitable. But how we change it’s up to us. And how we grow.. it seems that some people never grow.. which makes growth an option.
Hence.. We can see someone’s potential, but we can’t force them to change if they aren’t ready. So.. we can just love them.. accepting them as they are and we can find the way to encourage them to see what they are not able to see.
We can’t force them. I suppose the same way you wouldn’t like to be forced to do anything. We can’t beg them or shame them. Don’t stay with someone expecting them to change.. don’t put that burden on anyone.
We can only accept them. In case that we can’t accept them for who they are.. trying to force them to change because we want them to change.. that’s not love. That’s selfishness.
Please step back and ask yourself why do you do that? Let them go.
You can’t change people. Especially.. don’t try to change those who don’t see an issue in their actions. If someone hurts you and you verbalize your emotions but then you catch yourself that you constantly have to repeat the same exact thing about how you feel and they still don’t change it.. don’t expect change in them.. but in you. Understand that they don’t respect you but you must not forget to respect yourself.
You can always change the people you choose to be around. Just.. don’t force anything or anyone. It is not natural. And love is natural.
People change when they feel they should change when they realize they should change. They change when they want and when they are ready to change. And.. “being ready” is not the same for all.
Just.. Don’t expect “you” from people.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, y beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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