Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏

People tend to confuse many things. Hence why you must know and vocalize your boundaries.

Don’t mistake my kindness for weakness.

I’m always kind, that’s who I’m and my education. I treat everyone with respect but above all I treat myself with respect.

‘I’m part of the ‘be kind to everyone but don’t take shit from anyone’ soul family.’

So if you show no respect, kind is not what you will receive from me. How will I react? Well it depends on situations.

My character, my personality.. makes me who I am. My attitude will depend on who you are and how you treat me. Don’t confuse these two. No no.

Many people treat others without respect, hurting them.. expecting from them to accept it like something normal.. Me? I’m not one of them.

What kind of person are you if you hurt others? Remember that hurt people hurt people.. so face your wounds and heal them instead of cutting others making them bleed.

Please do not ever accept someone’s frustrations, bullying, disrespectful behaviour by looking down.. if your basic rights are disrespected, stand up for yourself and protect yourself. Only weak allow themselves to be hurt without reacting. And only cowards hurt others.

You must protect your rights!

If someone hits you, hit back (not literally hitting someone, but to speak up and stand up for yourself.. which will be your way and it depends on who you’re and situations)! Standing up for yourself you also stand up for others who choose (for x reason) to stay oppressed.

But first and foremost be kind to others, no matter your current mood. We are here to share love. Don’t be kind only when is convenient for you, because that’s not what kindness is.

And I am a very highly spiritual person.. but I don’t live in mountains among monks, so, yes, sometimes.. it happens.. it happens.. I can still say people to f.ck off, when deserved, if I have to protect my peace.

So.. Don’t mistake my kindness for weakness.

Dear, your garbage belongs to you and I will not take your trash.. the same way I won’t take out my garbage on you. Capisci? Good.

Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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Irina

So, let me introduce myself. My name is Irina Vujaklija and I was born in Belgrade on 31 January 1979. Who am I? Love. I know, you will roll your eyes.. But that is how it is. Discovering my true self wasn’t an easy process. Constantly working on myself, learning by seeking answers to many questions, I have managed to overcome very complicated life situations. Among other things, my severe motorcycle accident in 2004. A life altering moment in just one second.