‘Sometimes people will mess with your good vibes. You must throw them in the sea and carry on.’
Many people seem to be afraid to be authentic, to be themselves. They are not even aware of it. Maybe they are even aware.. and even then they don’t change, because they let fear overpower them.
And that inauthenticity affects everything.. even their emotions become inauthentic. And usually they will not like to see those who live as their true selves.
So when some people see authentic light, they want to extinguish it. Not because of the light itself, but because it reminds them that they too could live in the light, and be the light, but they keep choosing darkness.
So they will want to turn off that light, so the darkness can come in.. the same darkness they are in.
This is how people who are not at peace with themselves usually act. They will try to steal your peace. They will simply be bothered by your peace.
Fortunately, there are those whom you will encourage to do exactly that — to find their peace and joy IN THEMSELVES instead of looking to steal it from others. That light will wake them up.
Remember:
First: You’re not a light switch. And.. no one has the right to take what belongs to you. Your peace is your right and your responsibility. And you have no right to take the same from others.
However, this is not always the case.
That’s why it’s crucial that you choose YOUR PEOPLE very carefully. And especially YOUR PARTNER.
Yes, apart from you, no one else will have a greater effect on your life, your future and your well-being than the person with whom you decide to build a relationship.
And you decide who that will be.
So.. above all, be YOU.
Authentic you.
The first step is self-love. Then through self-love, hopefully, you will get to the point of becoming you.
To be in harmony with yourself.
To have your own peace.
To know your boundaries.
Then you will choose wisely where you give yourself, your love, your energy and your time.
Please.. don’t waste your time on those who are committed only to bringing you down.
Don’t let anyone’s negativity, hate, ignorance, drama or criticism stop you from living YOUR life.
Protect your peace.
Protect your energy.
Don’t waste your words on those who deserve your silence.
Choose a partner with whom you can communicate about everything.
Because the one who thinks you want to fight when all you want is healthy communication is not THE ONE for you.
Choose peace, not drama.
Choose someone who has a positive influence on you. Not someone who drains you by constantly messing with your emotions and good vibes.
Choose the one who speaks the language of your soul.
Choose the one who brings you peace, not drama.
Choose and build a relationship in which you can only grow.
Because flowers only bloom where they are properly watered.
That’s why your decision.. your decision regarding yourself and your partner is of tremendous importance.
Be in alignment with yourself and throw in the sea anyone who messes with your vibes.
Follow the signals that your body and soul give you.
Listen to the energy — it says a lot.
Even someone’s intentions. When you recognize intentions, you won’t have doubts about who feels good for you.
Be aware.
Listen to your inner voice — not your mind, but the voice that is voiceless.
Don’t try to change others. Rather change yourself and fucking move on. And learn to distinguish when you should have patience and when you are wasting time.
Because people come and go, but your peace shouldn’t depend on them. It should depend on you.
You will meet all kinds of people, so when you encounter those who mess with your peace and energy, it will be easier to recognize them.. so you can throw them in the sea and carry the fuck on.
Choose your people with wisdom and heart.
This isn’t the only text. But today, it might be enough.