Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Every time you lose someone but keep yourself, darling, you won!
Never.. never change who you’re for anything and anyone in the world! Perfect people don’t exist. We’re all perfectly imperfect.
‘Never change who you are just because you’re afraid of losing them. If they really love you, your imperfections won’t matter.’
Lose them.. but never, I repeat NEVER lose yourself! Stay true to yourself.
The one who is asking you to change.. is not the right person for you. The right one for you will accept for who you are, bringing out the best in you, encouraging you to be better version of yourself..
Think about this.. would you like to be loved for who you are or for some image you have been created to be accepted from the person you like – in other words.. fake person? Darling are you fake? Do you understand that if you change yourself for not losing others.. they still won’t love you, but that image of you?
Don’t be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself trying to love someone who doesn’t love real you!
Remember: every time you lose someone but keep yourself, darling, you won.
So many people of your past know a version of you that doesn’t exist anymore.
So.. Don’t be afraid to outgrow others.
Don’t be ashamed of who you were yesterday.
We all have history.
We all change on daily basis. In which direction? Well it depends on ourselves and choices we make.
We all make mistakes.. but not all learn from their mistakes.
Don’t be afraid of making mistakes, but be aware that if you repeat the same mistake again.. it’s no longer a mistake, but your choice!
Don’t look back. You’re no longer there.
Leave everything and everyone behind who stops you from growing.
Don’t shrink yourself for others who refuse to grow.
Don’t feel guilty for others who don’t want to progress. We all have the same mental possibilities.
The choice is up to each of us what to do. Change Is inevitable, but progress is not. Growth is optional.
Fall. Stand up. Make a mistake. Learn from it. Apply learned. Grow. Change. Keep going. Fall. Stand up..
People will notice your change(growth), and very often in a negative way.. meaning that you have stopped behaving according to their needs. Keep this in mind.
And if someone tells you that you have changed with the intention of making you feel guilty about it.. smile and say: yes I have, thank you! I evolved, and why didn’t you?
So, please, never forget: every time you lose someone but keep yourself, darling, you won.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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