Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
Let’s talk about Expectations vs. Offer. Have you ever wanted someone, expecting them to be “yours”(or to stay with you) without putting any “effort”.. like being consistent, constant, honest, showing them how you feel? Do you take the person you love for granted thinking they are “sure thing” without nurturing your relationship?
Do you like someone but.. how you treat them shows they are not your priority? Still.. you expect to be their priority.. or to magically be with you?
Do you message someone, telling them you like them, leaving them thinking they matter to you.. but all of the sudden you disappear without texting them for days? Leaving them wondering what da fak happened.
Do you text somebody telling them they are special to you, but you also do that with other people? Really?! How would you feel if they do the same to you?
What do you expect from others if you leave them with mixed signals? If your behaviour is not matching your words?
Don’t play games.. it’s a sign of immaturity.. don’t play with other people’s emotions if you’re not sure what you feel about them. It is a sign of cowardice.
You deserve the love you give. Is that the love you live? So.. don’t expect from others to treat you as someone special if you treat them like they don’t matter!
On the other hand if you ask for what you give.. your values, if you live with integrity, you shouldn’t accept anything less.
Why would you want anything else?? Mixed signals, games and being left wondering where you are standing at with someone are typical for immature people who don’t know what they want. You definitely don’t want that.
There’s nothing more beautiful and attractive than a man who knows what he wants and who isn’t afraid of showing that.
Honest man who has nothing to hide. Man who is ready to commit without second thoughts. Man who wants to grow and build relationship with you. And vice versa.
But before you start wishing this kind of man/woman.. ask yourself do you have the same values as they have?
Because so many people want all the best for them, which is completely fine.. but only and when they give the same. But usually they don’t give the same, not even 20% of things they ask for.
So.. be that person you want to have in your life. Otherwise it makes no sense.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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