Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
People who have givers by their side should take care of them. Givers are like a gem that should be treasured.
As a giver myself I had to learn many lessons.
People will take you for granted. They will take everything from you and will ask for more. BUT only if you allow it. That’s something I had to learn. Boundaries.
You have to know your limits, as others don’t know them. Speaking about any relationship.
Especially in a love relationship. Choosing your partner is one of the biggest and most important decisions you can make. You’re going to spend your time, energy.. EVERYTHING.. with your partner.. so choose them wisely.
Don’t water dead plants.. don’t try to soften the stone.. do not try to turn the rock into gold. Don’t try to paint a new picture.. just because you like someone. Just because you expect them to change.
Relationship is like a plant that both of you have to water and feed. Everything MUST be mutual. Speaking about the foundation of the relationship, not about bad or good days, when someone needs more love. Desire, resect, love, commitment, will, consistency, responsibility.. these things must be mutual!
You have to want to be there for each other. For your kingdom. You must nurture and take care of each other, becoming better versions of yourselves. There is no point if one side gives and the other one takes. Giving without receiving equals self-destruction. Your relationship should make you feel satisfied, not drained.
Dear, you need love too in order to grow. That’s why, if you’re a giver.. give yourself love first.. You can’t pour from an empty cup! Love yourself unconditionally so you could know your limits and when to stop giving yourself to others. Give where you’re appreciated and respected. Stay where you feel safe, protected and treasured.
Remember we teach others how to love us by what we allow and what we stop.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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