Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
Have the courage to be disliked!
Before you think about why you have to have the courage to be disliked.. I would like to clear up some things and help you.
In the first place.. do you have a need to be liked by others? Why?
Usually.. behind all the answers is: You want to be liked so you could feel accepted. By society, friends, family or someone you like. Being liked by someone else will boost your self confidence.. and it will make you feel that you’re worth. Worth loving, worth fighting for, worth spending time with etc. But that’s all false.. and you create nothing but dependence-attachment.
It’s because you look at yourself through the eyes of others.. the first time you feel rejected or disliked.. you will feel less confident and you will start to question your worth.
And that is so wrong.
What if I tell you that you don’t need to have a courage to be disliked?
What you need is to accept yourself fully. And darling, you will need some guts for that. Some courage. But.. When you accept yourself for who you are and how you look.. you won’t care about others. But you have to work on yourself.
Because when you accept yourself, you won’t care if you are liked or not.. simply because you won’t value and see yourself through eyes of others.. you won’t put the key to your self confidence in their hands.
Never.. never change who you’re for anything and anyone in the world! Perfect people don’t exist. We’re all perfectly imperfect.
Lose them.. but never, I repeat, NEVER lose yourself! Stay true to yourself.
The one who is asking you to change.. is not the right person for you. The right one for you will accept for who you are, encouraging you to be better person, without changing your essence.
Think about this.. would you like to be loved for who you are or for some image you created to be accepted from the person you like – in other words.. fake person? Darling are you fake? Do you understand that if you change yourself for not losing others.. they still won’t love you, but that image of you?
Don’t be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself trying to love someone who doesn’t love real you! Remember: every time you lose someone but keep yourself, darling, you won.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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