Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏

I really don’t know why people try to ignore or deny the existence of their dark side. Hell is empty and all the devils are here!

‘I don’t live in Darkness, Darkness lives in me.’

The fact is that WE ALL have good and “bad” side. Positive and negative side of us. Good and bad thoughts, feelings.

We are humans! We feel!

So what’s the point of denying the fact?

Which part of us will be dominant, it depends on us, our habits, beliefs.

We will never get rid of negative thoughts. Even with positive mindset.
Bad feelings or other emotions like fears, frustrations.. create dark side.

Don’t even try to ignore them.

There is also that positive bright side of us.. pure love, joy, positive self talk, kindness, any other emotions that make our lives better, brighter.

The first and foremost is to be aware of it. To embrace both dark and bright.
Then..

Which side we nurture more, that one will dominate.

If you let yourself to be controlled by frustrations, anger etc.. your dark side will win. This is usually your mind. Ego.

Or.. if you try to forgive, to love, to share, to be kind.. This is usually your heart.

We can transform negative to positive.. yes! It’s up to us to create habits that serve us.

I love Shakespeare’s quote: “Hell is empty and all the devils are here”.

Don’t be afraid to look within, sometimes the worst place you can be is your own head.

So embrace yourself. Be yourself and stay true to yourself. Keep in mind that many will love an image of you.. but very few will accept the reality of you. That’s why you must be real.

‘Only give your moments of heaven to the one willing to hold your hand and walk with you through your hell.’

People love positive energy, they all want a piece of it.. but when life hits you, when you need them, to receive the energy you gave.. everyone seems to run away.

And we all have those life challenges, situations, circumstances when we need some help.

So.. When someone knocks on your door wanting to enter and sit with you in the dark.. let them in. They will find SUPPORT like something NORMAL and NATURAL.. because you NEED IT. Because they see your essence, not your struggles. They see you through the eyes of understanding, not judging. That’s what pure love is.

Those who run away, being afraid of holding your hand.. they don’t deserve you!

Be with the one who sees you and your essence, your soul.. who will remind you that you’re a warrior and that you’d never fight another battle alone.
The one who sees your magic and who reminds you of how beautiful you’re.

That kind of person deserves your heart.

Because dear, if they can’t be with you at your worst, they definitely don’t deserve you at your best.

You don’t need anyone to save you, you need someone who will be there for you, while you’re saving yourself. Someone you can lean on. Someone you can trust.. because.. Hell is empty and all the devils are here!

Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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Irina

So, let me introduce myself. My name is Irina Vujaklija and I was born in Belgrade on 31 January 1979. Who am I? Love. I know, you will roll your eyes.. But that is how it is. Discovering my true self wasn’t an easy process. Constantly working on myself, learning by seeking answers to many questions, I have managed to overcome very complicated life situations. Among other things, my severe motorcycle accident in 2004. A life altering moment in just one second.