How do you know that you're with the right person? • IRINA'S WORLD

Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏

How do you know that you’re with the right person? Among other things, you will feel safe, they give you peace of mind. Communication comes easily when you talk to someone who loves (understands) you. It feels like there’s a strong trust between you, you can be vulnerable and protected at the same time.

Deep down we simply know when someone is the right person for us. Or not.

But.. very often people confuse these two things, so even though deep down they feel that someone is not for them, they stay with that person. From their own needs or desires or fears.

First, remember that how someone treats you is much more important than how much you want or think you love that person. Because how much do you love yourself first of all, if you are with someone who does not respect you, does not appreciate and does not prioritize you like you do them?

So above all, love yourself and know what love is not and what it is.. so that you can make wiser decisions when it comes to love. Because you deserve love and to be loved, don’t you think so too?

When someone loves you they make you feel you, you. You feel comfortable around them. You don’t need to translate your soul.

It’s as simple as that.

All the signs that indicate love or what love is not are obvious, only people often close their eyes, wishing that the picture was different.. but don’t forget that we are only as blind as we want to be.

The only time you should close your eyes is when you want to enhance your other senses and enjoy a kiss, a touch, a hug.. and when you want to see which person and face appears in your heart and mind after reading or while reading the following questions (well, here you will have to open your eyes):

Whose phone calls or messages are never unwanted or too long?

Who do you want to have in your life the most, their kind words, warm hugs, especially when you feel vulnerable and going through difficult moments?

Do you see that person’s face?

When you travel, with whom do the trips seem more enjoyable?

And who do you see next to you on this other journey called life? Because the company is much more important than the journey itself.

When you are in pain, who do you want next to you to comfort you and who knows how to take care of you?

When something wonderful happens in your life or when something bad happens, who do you want to share the news with first?

With whom you can talk about everything and feel understood?

Who accepts you just the way you are and loves you for that?

Who makes your heart smile?

Who do you trust? Who’s loyal to you?

Whose face appears in your heart?

Whose face?

Is there such a person?

If not, that’s ok too! Because not every person can be the right person for us! The point is to be with the one who feels right for you and not to be with someone just so you won’t be alone.

The point of a relationship is to be filled with respect, trust and love.