Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Do you like and want someone, but they don’t treat you well? Do you still want them in your life? Why?
How you are treated is more important than how much you like/love someone. Read that again. Soak it up. Let it sink in.
If you say I love them.. I will say.. dear, but you don’t love yourself then.
Did you explain to them that their behaviour hurts you, yet they continue doing their own thing without changing anything? Do you still want them in your life?
If you do.. you lack self-respect. Not only they disrespect you, but you do not respect yourself.
That’s the point.. we teach others how to treat us! And everything starts with self-love.. If you don’t know how to love yourself.. how can you know how true love feels like?
And.. They.. How they treat you is how they feel about you (and about themselves)! Don’t try to paint a new picture.. we are only as blind as we want to be!
Don’t ask why they don’t change and why they keep hurting you. Ask yourself why you’re allowing it. You can’t force them to change, but you can choose to leave.
‘Having feelings for someone and knowing if they’re good for you are two different things. Don’t get them confused.’
You’ve got to respect and love yourself enough to walk away from someone who does you wrong. No matter how much you think you like or love them.. there is no point in loving someone who doesn’t love you back!
And.. if you want someone in your life who treats you poorly.. It is not love but despair.
Pay attention to their actions, not words. Everyone can say ‘I love you’ but not everyone really means it. Believe it when you feel it, not when you hear it.
Be extremely picky, mindful about who you let into your life. Let your focus be on the quality of the relationship. Choose love. Love doesn’t hurt. Person who doesn’t know how to love you can hurt you. Choose to be respected rather than desired.
Choose the one who treats you right!
Because..
How you are treated is more important than how much you like or love someone. Read it again.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, y beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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