Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
So.. are you creating your life? I hope we all know by now that we are the creators of our lives.. or not? I know that many don’t understand this.. let me help you.
Creating your life does not mean that you can control life or external factors.. creating your life means that YOU CREATE YOU! Your inner world.
And you create yourself and your life with beliefs you have, decisions you make.. and many other things you do on daily basis.
Yes.. We decide how we will spend the time that is given to us.
We decide how to react to what life brings to us.
We decide whether we will participate in something we don’t feel good about or not. Simply by following our gut feeling we will know if something feels right or not. But very often people don’t listen to their guts.
We choose our surroundings & those people are our mirror. Even if you can’t choose your surroundings you decide how to deal with those who steal your peace.
‘You are the books you read, the films you watch, the music you listen to, the people you meet, the dreams you have, the conversations you engage in. You are what you take from these. You are the sound of the ocean, the breath of fresh air, the brightest light and the darkest corner. You are a collective of every experience you have had in your life. You are every single second of every single day. So drown yourself in a sea of knowledge and existence. Let the words run through your veins and let the colors fill your mind until there is nothing left to do but explode. There are no wrong answers. Inspiration is everything. Sit back, relax, and take it all in. Now, go out and create something.’
So.. Do you go out just because someone insists on that.. someone you don’t even like?
Do you go to parties even if you would rather stay home reading some book?
Do you participate in conversations you don’t want to? Like gossiping etc.
If you do, then..
Why? You know that it’s your right to say ‘no’, to all those things you don’t feel good about? ‘No’ is a full sentence.
Are you aware that by saying ‘yes’ to someone you are saying ‘no’ to yourself? Are you aware that you didn’t respect yourself?
If you don’t respect yourself how can you expect from others to respect you?
If you rather choose to please others than listening to your feelings.. why do you do that?
Do you think that this makes you a good person?
Nope.. this doesn’t make you a good person. Simply, you’re a people pleaser, usually because you’re afraid of what they will think about you if you say ‘no’ to them.
Meaning that YOU are stopping YOU from being YOU and think now what kind of life are you creating then?
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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