I love to say be kind but don't be blind! • IRINA'S WORLD

Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏

I love to say be kind but don’t be blind!

Don’t tolerate mistreatment but treat others as good as you are. In other words you don’t have to respond to disrespectful behaviour in the same way like the person who disrespected you. It makes you the same as they are. Stand up for yourself without disrespecting others.

‘It is entirely possible to be a kind, loving person who refuses to tolerate bullshit. In fact, it’s not only possible, it’s absolutely necessary.’

Yes, sometimes it requires our action.. but choose your battles wisely.

Don’t allow the people to leave their garbage in your garden. Cultivate flowers and take care of your garden.

Their garbage belongs to them, not you.

Protect your peace, cultivate love.

Then.. Never look or value yourself through eyes of others.

The same way don’t expect from others to behave according to your needs.

Don’t put the key to your happiness in other people’s pocket.

Focus on yourself. Know your values and set your standards. Work on yourself to be a better human every day. To yourself and to others.

Do no harm but take no sh.t from others.

There’s no better reward than going to sleep with clear consciousness.

‘My philosophy is: It’s none of my business what people say of me and think of me. I am what I am and I do what I do. I expect nothing and accept everything. And it makes life so much easier.’

Stop thinking what others think about you. A different version of you exists in the minds of everyone who knows you.

Other see us from their perspectives, from their realities.

The same way we see others.

That’s way we all see the same person but we perceive her/him in very different ways.

Other people’s opinions about you really don’t matter. Especially opinions of those who don’t even know you. And these kind of opinions are everywhere around us, especially on the internet.

You know.. opinions are like as..s we all have them.

So before you form your opinion make sure that you’re informed.

And focus on yourself. see yourself through your heart and values you nurture.. not through the opinion of others.

But.. let’s not forget that how we treat others speak about ourselves. Let’s not forget that we should influence positively on others.. as it, again, speaks about ourselves. And.. how they react, it speaks about them.

Focus on yourself. Be kind but don’t be blind.