Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
I think that love and trust should always be given freely.. at first.. Why? It speaks about you.. no, it doesn’t mean that you’re stupid.. but a genuine, honest person who believes in love and good in people.
It means that we follow our hearts, we believe in love and people and it shows that we’re open for commitment.. BUT not to everyone and not unconditionally! Love is unconditional but relationships are NOT! So, as you can see, no you’re not stupid but wise.
If you don’t trust in people and love.. you will build walls. Walls don’t serve you but boundaries. Boundaries MUST come from the right place, the place of love. If they come from the fear, you will build walls not boundaries.
You must choose someone you want to commit yourself to, the one who deserves your love.. and it’s not selfish but self-respect. That’s why boundaries serve.
I know we’ve all had bad experiences in relationships, and that’s the point of them. Not to regret them, but to learn from them. That’s how you learn to trust the energy, and to be cautious, aware. Because people lie.. but their actions and energy never.
Be very mindful about who you are committing yourself to!
Commitment means that you believe someone you want to build your relationship with and everything that goes with it: responsibility, loyalty, dedication, consistency, trust, respect. It means believing in someone you give your love and trust to, that they won’t take you for granted. It means giving your heart to someone, trusting them to hold it gently. It means giving power to someone to hurt you, but trusting them not to. But this also applies to you.
Remember.. It takes so much love, responsibility and maturity for building love and relationship, you shouldn’t give your love freely. You need someone who will match you.
And dear.. your love and trust have to be earned! Each and every day. If you love and respect yourself and if you know your values, what you can do, give.. don’t give your love to someone who won’t appreciate it, who won’t respect it. Don’t waste your love.
Remember that we teach others how to treat us, by what we allow and what we stop.. and we accept the love we think we deserve. And we deserve love we give.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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