Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏

I thought I was special TO YOU until I realized you talk to everyone like that! Has this ever happened to you? To me, yes.

If your partner ain’t your biggest fan, then, darling, you need a new partner!

Let’s talk from perspective as if you were loyal, full of love and respect kind of person, who has eyes only for your man/woman, but you don’t receive the love you give.. If your partner doesn’t look at you as if you were magical, but they look at you like at anyone else.. are you sure this is the love you want?

If your partner goes around giving their attention, time, compliments to everyone.. messaging other people, instead of giving their time to you.. do you really think you deserve this? Don’t you think you’re special?

We all have eyes, we see beautiful people everywhere. But HOW we look at them is what makes a difference.

If your partner doesn’t look at you as if you were the only one they see.. what’s the point?

Observe how they treat you, it is exactly how they feel about you.

The effort and time they put in a relationship and you, speaks about their priorities and how they see you!

Their heart should be just for you!

Don’t ignore red flags, listen to your guts.. they have their purpose! One of the biggest unkind things you can do to yourself is to keep your eyes closed in front of obvious things.

We are only as blind as we want to be!

If you’re afraid of losing them.. why? They’re not down for you anyway. Change your mindset: watch them losing you!

My golden rule: if anyone can have it, I don’t want it!

I love with all my heart but if someone doesn’t treat me in the way I deserve(=the love I give).. I will immediately take off his crown and remove him from the throne. He was there because I put him there. Dear, you have to deserve your place there. You were a king and now you’re nothing but a pawn.

Firstly: BE THAT LOVE YOU WISH TO RECEIVE.

And remember if someone makes you feel special, but you realise they talk to everyone like that.. don’t even think you’re not special or less worthy of love. You are special, JUST NOT FOR THEM. And how they treat you.. dear, it speaks about them not you!

Be bold to wait for the one who will look at you as all partners should be looked at. 

Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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Irina

So, let me introduce myself. My name is Irina Vujaklija and I was born in Belgrade on 31 January 1979. Who am I? Love. I know, you will roll your eyes.. But that is how it is. Discovering my true self wasn’t an easy process. Constantly working on myself, learning by seeking answers to many questions, I have managed to overcome very complicated life situations. Among other things, my severe motorcycle accident in 2004. A life altering moment in just one second.