Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
I want to remind you that you were born free, not a slave.
If you live your life up to your family’s, friends, society’s expectations, then you deserve the life you live. Just don’t complain, YOU’VE CHOSEN IT!
If you live your life up to yours expectations, then again.. you deserve the life you live.
When you start to worry about what people think about you, is exactly the moment when you start to lose yourself.
Another fact you should be aware of is that many people think the same.
And it’s not because they care about you and your precious opinion.. but because they care to be accepted. Liked. Appreciated. Loved. And.. we all want that, but that is the wrong way to accomplish any of this
Caring about what people think of you is useless. Most people don’t even know what they think of themselves.
Also don’t feel bad that your opinion doesn’t matter.. opinions don’t matter and the world doesn’t revolve around you either!
People are mostly in fear and do things out of fear. You can respect someone’s opinion without identifying with it or living on the basis of it.
On the other hand, you can live your life worrying about what people think of you and you will end up becoming a slave to them putting the key to your happiness in their hands.
You will end up trying to please everyone, living your life based on their opinion of how you should live YOUR life.
As a consequence, you live in fear that you may disappoint their expectations. And it gets so complicated in your head, that you don’t think at all about why you do it and how YOU feel and how you live YOUR life.
Why would you do that? By living in constant fear of what people think of you, you’re hurting YOURSELF.
Furthermore.. what you allow, it will continue.
And you’ll surely disappoint them. If not earlier, then that will be the moment when you start living your life according to your standards. In this case, don’t be afraid, feel free to disappoint them. It is necessary.
You can’t please everyone, neither you should. Please yourself.
‘In a world full of people expecting something from us; Remember the most important person you have to please is yourself.’
People will judge you no matter what. It’s easier for them to judge others than to focus on their lives. It’s just an escape for them from their problems and life. They rather judge others than face their issues.
So.. understand that you are just wasting your life doing any of that. Others don’t matter!
FOCUS ON YOU. TO BE YOU.
Care for people who deserve it. Be responsible for your life and live how ever you like and want, as long as you don’t hurt others.
So remember: If you live your life up to your family’s, friends, society’s expectations, then you deserve the life you live. Just dont complain, YOU’VE CHOSEN IT!
If you live your life up to yours expectations, then again.. you deserve the life you live.
Remember that you were born free, not a slave.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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