Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
If someone calls you ‘difficult’.. and it will happen or if you call someone ‘difficult’.. then, this is for you.
There are people who call you ‘difficult’ every time you don’t dance to the music they play.. when you don’t behave according to their expectations.. when your reaction to their ‘action’ is not what they want.. when you reject disrespect and say what you feel out loud, etc. The point is that you don’t change your essence, but the one who is next to you and who doesn’t see it.
If someone calls you ‘difficult’.. step back.
People judge so easily. Especially when you don’t fit into ‘their box’. And that will always happen with people who are authentic.
People who don’t understand the importance of authenticity, aka being who you are.. will try to blend you in with the crowd. And in that mass are all those who are inauthentic, who look at each other, imitate each other..
As soon as something goes beyond their understandings, beliefs, there are those who will try to silence you, drag you down to their level because, among other things, this difference ‘scares’ them.
And then, such inauthentic ones, create relationships, very often with another inauthentic person.. trying to change partners instead of changing themselves. They look for their happiness in others, and expect their partner to behave according to their expectations.
Quite often they will show disrespect towards their partner, as soon as the partner does something that does not fit into their beliefs, thinking, expectations.
And if it is pointed out to them, instead of stopping and analyzing, they will think that you want to fight.
Authentic people know the importance of the same, as well as the differences between people. Instead of changing others, they accept them exactly as they are. Accordingly, they decide whether they want them in their lives or not.
They also want to be accepted just as they are.
They also understand the importance of boundaries. Because they came to their authenticity and to be who they are through connection with themselves and self-love. From that love, boundaries were created.
Those boundaries serve to protect them and their essence. Inauthentic people don’t understand that, and neither does the concept of boundaries.
To them, boundaries will seem like an insult. It’s important that you understand this, so that you don’t change your essence, nor remove your boundaries, but the people from your life.
So choose carefully who ‘your people’ are, and especially carefully choose your partner.
If someone calls you ‘difficult’, ‘weird’, ‘too much’, ‘too little’.. don’t react, but analyze. Who said it, why and in what way. If you think you need further explanation, ask, clarify. If not, step back, keep your peace. Don’t explain your essence to those who look as if they are committed to not understanding you.
Don’t see yourself through other people’s eyes. How people see you, how they treat you, talk to you, it doesn’t say about you but about them.
And of course all this applies to you as well.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏💙
Love and namaste,
Irina
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