If you didn't come from a healthy family • IRINA'S WORLD

Good morning you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻

If you didn’t come from a healthy family..

“I didn’t grow up having role models, I grew up having people I didn’t wanna be like and seeing situations I’d never wanna be in. Not all of us are dealt the right cards but that doesn’t mean you can’t reshuffle your deck for a better outcome.”

I think most people can identify with this. At least in some part of it. I know I can. And I know many who can relate to this entirely.

Maybe we can’t choose our parents. Maybe we can’t choose where we are born.
Maybe you didn’t have an option to change something then..

But you have an option now. You can choose how your childhood will influence your present moment, and you as a person.

Maybe you suffered as a child. Maybe you were the victim of an abuse. Maybe your parents didn’t treat you well. Maybe you had some terrible traumatic experience.

Know that you’re not alone in this. People all around the world have similar stories.

They just don’t talk about it.

I will remind you that you have the power of now. You have the power of choice. Find your inner hero! You choose whether you will let your broken childhood define you by becoming a “broken” person (victim) or you will decide to heal your wounds and learn from them, teaching others how to do the same.

You decide this. Every day.

Because: If you didn’t come from a healthy family, make sure a healthy family comes from you.

To be honest.. I don’t know many healthy families. The thing is that not many are willing to admit that.

To me that’s more than obvious..

And no.. you’re not a black sheep:

For wanting to make things differently.
For recognizing and changing unhealthy patterns.
For willing to give love in the way you haven’t received.
For wanting to do thing right and pointing out causes of unhappiness.
For wanting to break the circle of unhealthy beliefs.
For choosing to create new healthy habits, creating a new better life.
For choosing to live up to your expectations.

Yes, you will be rejected, called crazy etc.
And even if these things make you, like mediocre people say, a “black sheep”.. so be it. Their opinion shouldn’t stop you, because you know:

– from what perspective they act, talk and think..
– their opinion doesn’t define you, but themselves
– that your goal is to do things better by being aware of yourself and things you would like to change
– that blaming others won’t help you to have a better life
– that your higher purpose is to give love in the right way
– that you have to be responsible for your actions and how they affect you and others.