Good morning you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
If your partner ain’t your biggest fan, then, darling, you need a new partner!
I thought I was special to you until I realized you talk to everyone like that.
Let’s talk from perspective as if you were loyal, full of love and respect kind of person, who has eyes only for your man/woman, but you don’t receive the love you give.. If your partner doesn’t look at you like you’re magic, but they look at you like at anyone else, are you sure that you want that?
If your partner goes around giving their attention, time, compliments to everyone.. messaging other people, instead of giving their time to you.. do you really want that? Don’t you think that you’re special? Don’t you think you deserve to be treated as such?
We all have eyes, we see beautiful people everywhere. But HOW we look at them is what makes a difference.
If they don’t look at you as if you were the only one they see.. what’s the point?
Observe how they treat you, it is exactly how they feel about you.
The effort and time they put in the relationship and you speaks about their priorities and how they see you!
Their heart should be only for you!
Don’t ignore red flags, listen to your guts.. they have their purpose! One of the biggest unkind things you can do to yourself is to keep your eyes closed in front of obvious things.
We are only as blind as we want to be!
If you’re afraid of losing them.. why? They’re not down for you anyway. Change your mindset: watch them losing you!
My golden rule: if anyone can have it, I don’t want it!
I love with all my heart but if someone doesn’t treat me in the way I deserve(=the love I give).. I will immediately take off his crown and remove him from the throne. He was there because I put him there. Dear, you have to deserve your place there. You were a king and now you’re nothing but a pawn.
AGAIN: BE THAT LOVE YOU WISH TO RECEIVE.
Then: If your partner ain’t your biggest fan, then, darling, you need a new partner!
And vice versa!
We all met someone who made us feel special to them, until we realized that they talk to everyone like that.. aren’t we?
The thing is.. They don’t matter and the point is.. stay away from them. They are a black void. The loss is their, not yours.
You’re special and you deserve to be treated in a special, extraordinary way.. by someone who is special as you’re.
Never forget that you accept the love you think you deserve. And I will add to this that YOU DESERVE THE LOVE YOU GIVE.
What do you give?
Do you see yourself as an option? One of many? Do you treat your partner in such a way?
If you think that you deserve halfass love, those who are not constant and consistent or those who are all mouth no trousers, then fine. You do you.
But.. Oh boy, it would be a shame to waste your time on those who struggle to be faithful, consistent, constant. Because I can tell you, inconsistency is unattractive as hell. And being an option shouldn’t be your option.
Faithful partner don’t struggle with being consistent because their time goes only to you! Unlike those who have many “spare time” partners.
Be bold to wait! Wait for the one who looks at you like you’re the most beautiful in the world! Who treats you right!
Choose the one who chooses you, over and over again, among everyone else! The one who supports you, who will encourage you to follow your passion, your dreams. The one who will hold your hand as you go together through any struggle. Wait for the quality. WAIT FOR LOYALTY.
Never settle for the one who loves you in fraction. You need to be loved all the time and kissed often, by the one who knows how! If your partner ain’t your biggest fan, then, darling, you need a new partner!
But most importantly.. be that person you wish to have in your life.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🏻🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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