Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
‘One of the most toxic things I’ve done is ignore the bad in someone because I wanted to keep them in my life.’
Never again!
Because you see, darling, ignoring any kind of mistreatment shows the lack of self-love.
Wanting to keep someone even if they are toxic for you, shows the lack of self-respect and despair.
If someone hurts you, say it. Communicate. Sometimes we can unknowingly hurt loved ones.
But.. If you have to remind them constantly the same thing about how you feel and they don’t change it.. they don’t respect you!
You can’t change them, but you CAN CHANGE THEM. 😉 Refuse to be part of any unhealthy relationship, choose what feels right, choose to leave stories without love.
And then.. sometimes someone’s behaviour can provoke old unhealed wounds. It is so important to distinguish between when someone HURTS us and when something TRIGGERS us.
Hence..
Communicate your feelings always, without fear. Practice communication. It shows that you care and you care to be understood and to understand. It shows that you want to take the relationship to the next level.
If someone is mistreating you.. Stand up for yourself. No, this does not mean you want to fight; it means you know your boundaries and you vocalize them. Make sure that your boundaries come from self-love.
Sharing your feelings doesn’t make you weak. It shows your strength.
It takes courage to be vulnerable. And you need to feel safe when you open yourself to someone.
Saying ‘no’ doesn’t make you selfish. It means that you love and respect yourself.
‘One of the most toxic things I’ve done is ignore the bad in someone because I wanted to keep them in my life.’
Dear, if someone doesn’t respect your feelings, needs, boundaries.. if someone doesn’t try to understand your love language.. why would you want them in your life? That’s not love. Don’t force connections and don’t live illusions. Live reality.
Distinguish between what love is and what love is not.. learn when to be patient and when you waste your time. Feel what nurtures your soul and what drains you.. but most importantly learn to love yourself in order to let go of anything that doesn’t enrich your life!
Because you will never be able to live true love as long as you hold on to toxic relationships. Love yourself.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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