Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Inconsistency is unattractive as hell.
How are you gonna treat someone like they mean something to you one day then act like they don’t exist the next?
Have you ever wanted somebody, expecting them to be “yours” (or to stay with you) without putting any “effort”.. like being consistent, constant, honest? Do you take the person you love for granted thinking they are a “sure thing” without nurturing the relationship you’re in?
Do you like someone but.. how you treat them shows they are not your priority? Still.. you expect to be their priority.. or do you expect them to be yours by a miracle? Do you message someone, telling them you like them, leaving them thinking they matter to you.. but all of the sudden you disappear without texting them for days? Leaving them wondering what da fak happened..
Do you text someone telling them they are special to you, but you also do that with other people? Really?! How would you feel if they do the same to you? Hm?
What do you expect from others if you leave them with mixed signals? If your behaviour is not matching your words?
Don’t play games.. it’s a sign of immaturity.. don’t play with other people’s emotions if you’re not sure what you feel about them. It is a sign of cowardice.
You deserve the love you give. Is that the love you live? And.. don’t expect from others to treat you as someone special if you treat them like a sh.t.
So, dear.. be consistent or don’t touch anything with half of your heart.
Oh I’m attracted to persistence and consistency.. oh so very much! That’s how I know if you’re really feeling me. Of course it only works if I like you. And must be mutual. Otherwise it makes no sense.
Intelligence, integrity are so attractive to me! Combined with persistence and consistency, knowing what you want and not being afraid to show it.. booom. 
And..
It shows how much someone is interested in you. Their effort, time they dedicate to you.. being constant, consistent, wanting to know you by being engaged in your life.
Someone who will communicate with you, so you can go through any situation together, instead of giving up, because they care about you instead of caring to be right. These are some of the parameters for me.
Not words but all these things above. Not talking but acting.
Words without acting have no sense and it is so unattractive, in the same way like inconsistency is..
So.. pay attention to how someone treats you. How they treat you is how they feel about you. Believe them.
Vice versa is a must, as love goes both ways. Do not ask for something you don’t give. Don’t expect from someone to do something you’re not willing to do for them.
Be careful who you give your love to, don’t cross oceans for someone who wouldn’t swim halfway to you. But.. don’t expect from someone to go and bring you the moon if you don’t light their way.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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