Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Invest your time in those who deserve it. You shouldn’t prioritize those who treat you as an option.
Some talk to you in their free time and some free their time to talk to you. Learn the difference.
That’s why boundaries serve. You should always give your best in any kind of relationship, to avoid regrets, but you should never forget to give your best to you too.
So.. whenever you don’t feel appreciated, respected and equally important to someone.. it’s time for a conversation. with yourself and them.
Never underestimate the power of good, honest, open conversation. Communication is key.
Simply, some people or many people may not be aware that they take you for granted.. so you must speak up.
Don’t exclude yourself from this. “Some people” are all of us.
Remember we teach others how to treat us by what we allow and what we stop.
That’s why communication is the foundation of any relationship. But first of all communication with oneself.
Make time for those you care about, and surround yourself with those who make time for you.
It’s not about having time, it’s about making time. Priorities. We choose them.
Time is give to all of us. We choose how to spend our (free)time. Even if you have no time.. you have time to send a message to say that, right?
So.. invest your time in those who deserve it.
Especially when it comes to love relationships!
If someone treats you like you’re ordinary.. they are not worthy of your love!
Don’t be someone’s ‘sometimes’!
Hey.. we are talking about love here. LOVE! What does love mean to you? Do you live according to that definition? Do you FEEL loved? Does the person you like/love treat you special? Or do they just want you to believe that you are special to them?
We all know those who make you believe that you’re special to them, until you realise they talk to everyone like that! What kind of person would do that? Definitely the kind of person you DON’T want in your life.
Those who play with other people’s emotions, those who send you mixed signals by being off/on with you, those who make you question where you’re standing at, those who look for you only when they need you.. take them as a BIG NO.
Don’t give them the power to decide for something that you have equally right! Love (relationship) goes both ways!
Wait for the one who MAKES time for you.. the one who prioritizes you, treating you right. The one who respects your feelings, love, needs, time.
If person is really interested in you, they will make an effort to put you at ease bringing you peace and harmony. And it will be done EFFORTLESSLY. Simply because they care for you and they want you to feel safe!
If someone treats you like an option leave them by choice. Don’t spend your time and give your heart to those who make you wonder about their feelings for you!
But most importantly, don’t treat others the way you wouldn’t like to be treated!
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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