Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
It seems that it is very easy to be ‘busy’ when someone needs your help, and how do you feel when someone is ‘busy’ when you need help.. It hurts, doesn’t it?
There are two extreme differences in the feeling we have, when everything is calm in our life compared to when we need the help of others.
And we all felt both spectrums, because life is exactly like that, it gives you beautiful things and then challenges you in such a way that you think you don’t have the strength to go on.
Be that as it may, you can’t control life from the outside, but you can control your attitude towards life, yourself and others.
So never forget how you felt when you asked for help, because tomorrow when someone asks you for help, they go through similar feelings. And you will agree, the feeling is debilitating.
I also cannot emphasize enough that it is very important what kind of people you surround yourself with, and ESPECIALLY WHO YOU CHOOSE AS YOUR PARTNER. Emotional support is one of the crucial things. But this does not exclude you, so be the person you want in your life.
Because just think about this.. yes, it’s painful when we hear that someone is ‘busy (=doesn’t answer the call, isn’t there for us, doesn’t want to..)’ when we need them and help, especially if we were there for them.
That’s why I want to ask you: How do you react? Do you get angry? Do you judge them? Or do you stop talking to them? Or maybe you listen to what they have to say and then make a decision?
Do you believe them or not and why?
Whatever your answers are, know your WHY! Because your answers speak about you and your attitude towards others.. and their ‘busyness’ about them and how they experience themselves and you.
Then.. do you give everything that you expect from others?
Do you expect people to always be there for you? Are you always there for them?
Don’t expect others to immediately drop everything aside and be there for you, and if they do, never forget it.
Always start from yourself.. do you give what you expect?
Whatever it might be. Are you loyal, if you expect loyalty? Do you help when you can, even without being asked? Or are you ‘busy’?
Because before you say you are busy, just remember how you felt when you needed help and no one was there for you. This does not mean that you help if you cannot, but that you do not hide behind excuses if you can help.
You get the point.
Don’t expect YOURSELF from people. Just accept them as they are and based on that, CHOOSE who you want in your life and WHY!
Therefore choose people similar to you, and CHOOSE YOUR PARTNER VERY CAREFULLY. Emotional support is crucial. Don’t choose someone for whom you are an option, but a priority. The one who is there for you, no matter what.. and above all, be that person.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 💙🙏
Love and namaste,
Irina
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