Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏

When you meet someone you like but somehow everything looks complicated .. do you look at obstacles or you say and think: Just be with me, we’ll figure out the details later.

Being with someone you love and letting your heart guide you instead of letting fear get in the way should be the right way of doing the things.

Your heart knows the way. Trust and follow your heart.

BUT.. people rather let their fear be their guiding force.

They get all vigorous when they meet someone they like.. enthusiastic.. promising things without even thinking whether or not they will stand behind their words..

And usually, they don’t. Because they let their mind to rule their heart.

They tend to overthink situations, possibilities, thinking what can go wrong and as a result they lose someone they really like.. or love! Dear love knows no calculation.. love simply wants to love. Show your love.
Be aware that fear is just a result of your thoughts. This will happen if you follow your mind.

And let me ask you this..

What if.. You just listen to your heart and go where it desires to be? What if everything comes out perfectly? What if you risk all those things, you are afraid of.. for love?

So how can you know if you don’t try it?

Not many will go all in for love.. risking things to be with someone they love. They aren’t even aware that the only thing they put in risk is to lose someone they love. Yet they wish true love. Isn’t it just absurd?

They would rather feel comfortable, wishing to all go smoothly without giving their part, like being consistent, determined, constant, present without being afraid to show how they feel. If you are like this.. please don’t halla.s love. Either go all or nothing.

Have guts.. because love is brave.

Love is for the brave, not for the cowards.

YOU SEE, IT’S JUST A MATTER OF PERSPECTIVE AND YOUR PRIORITIES. Yes, your priorities. I know this will be for many like hitting the nail on their head or a slap on the face.

But dear.. the truth is you never know what will happen.
What matters is to believe and to be with that one you care about. What matters is that you follow your heart.

And all those things you fear of.. are figureoutable. Challenges will always be there but remember: if you can’t figure it out NOW it doesn’t mean that is impossible. Everything is possible if you wish to do something BUT you must put your part if you want things to work out.
Don’t let your fears stop you from loving someone. There is nothing worse than living with regret. And unless you try something.. you never know what might happen.

And if it doesn’t work out as you planned.. dear.. it’s not the end of the world. Remember: what matters is to give 100%.

Both of you.

Let’s not forget that if only one puts their work.. it’s not enough for a relationship. Everything must go both ways.
So, think your priorities. And risk.. dare to risk. In the name of love. Because.. Love is all you need.

Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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Irina

So, let me introduce myself. My name is Irina Vujaklija and I was born in Belgrade on 31 January 1979. Who am I? Love. I know, you will roll your eyes.. But that is how it is. Discovering my true self wasn’t an easy process. Constantly working on myself, learning by seeking answers to many questions, I have managed to overcome very complicated life situations. Among other things, my severe motorcycle accident in 2004. A life altering moment in just one second.