Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
Relationships fail because of trust, communication and commitment issues. Also, due to lack of a sense of responsibility and respect.
“It’s the time you spent on your rose that makes your rose so important.. People have forgotten this truth, but you mustn’t forget it. You become responsible forever for what you’ve tamed. You’re responsible for your rose.”
I can’t stress enough that good, healthy communication is base of every relationship. Good communication doesn’t just happen, you have to work on that.
You have to talk about everything with your partner, whether you agree or disagree on something.
It will be challenging..
And..
You have to face any challenge! I mean you don’t have to, it’s your decision.
We all have fears, doubts.. but you gotta do what’s right! We usually know when something is wrong, when something doesn’t feel right, or simply if we don’t like something.. but very often we refuse to speak about it, instead, we ignore it, most of time because we fear other people’s (partner’s) reactions.. and that’s not right!
It’s so “easy” to ignore it, but that’s not right!
You gotta face your fears. Most of people don’t do that.. why?! Because it is a hard work.. so it’s much easier to neglect it.
People fear facing their fears. By choosing to ignore your fears, things can only get worse because you suppress your emotions. You become unhappy. You start to blame everything else, but yourself. It starts to reflect on your life and ppl around you. Your relationship becomes unhealthy, just because you have decided to ignore red flags.
Good communication is base for any healthy relationship.
Take responsibility for your life. You are responsible for whatever you do, say.. especially when it comes to relationship with someone. It not just about you anymore, but about someone else’s life too. If you are not ready to commit, don’t waste anyone’s time.. remember that there are others who will appreciate everything about someone that you didn’t. Just be real. Don’t play with other people’s emotions just because you’re insecure in your own. That’s an act of cowardice.
And you are not a coward, right?
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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