Good morning you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
Please learn the difference between loyalty and slavery.
Loyalty, oh.. is soo attractive. But don’t forget to be loyal to yourself first. Set your boundaries and learn to walk away from anyone who doesn’t respect them.
Staying in an abusive relationship (physically or mentally), or any kind of toxic environment, is not loyalty but.. slavery, ignorance. Simply you should learn your limits and what self respect is.
Instead of thinking: “Why does someone treat me like this?”, try with: “Why do I allow myself to tolerate any kind of abuse and why do I allow them to treat me badly in my space (life)?”
Dear.. please keep this in mind: if you ask people to respect you.. you don’t ask them to give you anything that isn’t yours.. you ask them not to take from you what is yours and what belongs to you! Protect yourself! Omg, I love my pearls..
Another thing.. stay naive, but don’t be stupid. To me being naive, simply means that you are a genuine person, like a kid who believes and sees good in others. But you’re not a kid anymore so be naive, believe in people, but learn your lesson and don’t be stupid.
Being stupid is staying with someone, allowing them to abuse you over and over again and still expecting them to change. It’s like participating in your own pain. Dear, you need to change. Not them, but you.
You can’t be with someone who doesn’t understand the wrong in what they’re doing. The same way you can’t be with someone who doesn’t worry about you, and doesn’t take your feelings into consideration as they would their very own.
If you have to remind someone constantly the same thing about how you feel, and they don’t change it, understand that they dont respect you! You can’t change others, but you can change how to deal with them.
Maybe they aren’t aware of things they do that might hurt you. Speak up. Once you said something is enough, for those who want to try to understand.
Trust the energy.. it never lies. Usually the signs you ignore at the beginning end up being reason you leave someone. You know who is right or bad for you. Don’t ignore the gift called intuition you have.
No matter how much you think you love someone, never tolerate mistreatment. Never choose to stay with someone who pushes you to leave, choose not to lose yourself, instead of thinking that you can lose them.
Be with someone who doesn’t think you’re complaining when you try to explain how you feel. Someone who understands your soul.
Choose the one who has a heart only for you, who shows up for you, the one who holds your heart just as carefully as you hold theirs.
Be with someone who brings you peace, and not having to question their love, loyalty, honesty is the most beautiful, peaceful and freeing feeling in the world.. but don’t forget that you should give the same.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🏻🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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