Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
Unpopular truth: you don’t have to keep anything or anyone in your life if they are not good for your mental health. Let go of anything that is toxic for you, even if they are your family. You choose.
Toxic is toxic and knows no gender, colour or whether someone is your family or not.
I dislike sooo much when people say: they are still your family. I would ask them: so what?
If someone is your family does this fact give them permission to make you feel bad about yourself? Does this mean that they can do whatever da fak they want, just because they are family and knowing this they think that you will stay with them just for the sake of being a family?
If you are a cunt, whether you’re my family or not, I will catapult you out of my life, so you may feel that you’re in the space shuttle going unknown direction.
If I have done everything to explain how I feel regarding your behaviour towards me but you still behave like a cunt I will cut you off from my life, like you never existed before.
If you don’t bring any value to my world.. you don’t belong there.
Toxic is toxic and it has to go.
Sorry but not sorry. Having a good health is unconditional but your presence is conditional.
But.. how to know when something has to go out of your life?
How will you know that something has reached its end?
By the way you feel. By the way it feels. It’s important to leave anything that is toxic for you. If you want a different, bright future.
Life is full of ups and downs, so as any kind of relationship.
We all change. So leaving should comes naturally.. if we reach to an end, when nothing we try seems to work.
But.. in order to have no regrets and to leave in peace(with yourself)..
Before you decide to leave.. make sure that you’re doing it for the right reasons, not because of some obstacle you’re facing.
Where there’s no love, respect, trust anymore these should be a reasons. Obstacle is an excuse, when you escape from responsibility and commitment.
So before you leave, make sure that you give 100% in order to save anything that you’re going through. It can be relationship, friendship, job, family! So, Yes, again.. even family..
If you give it all.. and environment is still toxic, for x reasons.. explain how you feel and leave. Save yourself. You’re not under any obligation to nurture any relationship that steals your joy.
When you leave.. close the door and let your past behind you. If you want peace of mind & heart. That’s why is important to know that you have tried it all.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🏻🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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