Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Let’s pretend that everything is ok, even tho we know it’s not.
Are you pretending that everything is ok, even tho you know that is not? Let me tell you more how people live nowadays..
Let’s not communicate and complicate.. our already complicated relationship.
Let’s not complicate our relationship by trying to communicate with each other.
Let’s sweep things under the rug, pretending that we are ok.
Let’s post our photos on social media where we look like a happy couple to impress others.
Let’s ignore each other to protect our “peace”.
Let’s tell others how much we love each other, so we can maintain that “happy couple” image.
Let’s not talk to each other about how we feel and what is bothering us.
Let’s suppress our feelings to avoid disagreements.
Let’s neglect the work we have to do.. why would we address the elephant in the room?
Let’s enjoy this silence.. silence that feels so uncomfortable.
Sooo.. Let’s pretend that everything is ok, even tho we know it’s not.
It seems like we have lots of work to do.. so, please let’s not communicate, let’s not complicate our perfect relationship.
Let’s live in a lie, out of fear that the truth can ruin this ‘perfect’ relationship.
Let’s smile.. but let’s stay unhappy within.
Let’s cheat on each other, but let’s stay together.
Let’s stay unhappy together to avoid judgments from people.
Let’s stay together because we are afraid to start afresh, to be alone.
Let’s stay together so we can be together yet so lonely.
Let’s live under the same roof, to be close to each other and so far apart.
Familiar with this? Sadly, many live this way.
‘You can’t save a relationship unless both people are equally invested. It takes a joint effort to make it work. One person trying will never be enough.’
Communicate with each other. Communicate always, even when it gets uncomfortable.. even when it’s difficult. Especially then. Choose your partner carefully.. choose the one who will sit down and talk instead of escaping from their responsibility. Be with the one who is compatible with you! The one who will see the problem, but look for a solution. Because it is you two vs. problem.. not you against them and who is right.
But first and foremost, be that person. Don’t touch anything with half of your heart. Go honestly all in. All the way. And if it needs to be the end, be honest till the end. Because there is nothing more painful than staying somewhere where you don’t feel loved or with someone you don’t love.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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