Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Love goes both ways!
The time and effort you put into a relationship show your interest. And it is done naturally, effortlessly. Effort simply feels effortless, because it comes naturally.
People always dream about having a “perfect” relationship or to be with someone, and that is fine, but usually they don’t put enough effort to be/stay with that person. Yet they love when they’re priority in other people’s lives.
They love to receive attention.. but who doesn’t love it?
The problem is if they get used to it, taking it for granted.. so as that person. They stop valuing them and they don’t give equal.
If we speak about relationships or if you want to be with someone.. ask yourself what if you receive the same amount of effort as you give? What would it be then? Would you be with that person?
In case if someone decides to leave you.. ask yourself about the amount of effort you put in the relationship.. maybe that’s the reason why they want to leave. Think before it’s too late.
Effort is a reflection of interest. You can’t always expect to receive, it doesn’t work that way. One needs to give in order to receive.
If you are a giver and always put an effort.. don’t let that exhaust you, know your limits.. simply ask yourself: do you receive the same amount of effort as you give?
Love goes both ways.. and you both should nurture your relationship with the same effort. You deserve the love you give. So if you give 15% don’t expect to receive 100%. And if you give 100% don’t accept halfass love.
Think this: If my absence doesn’t affect you, then my presence in your life has no point.
Do you feel like you are giving a lot but somehow it is not reciprocal? Or that you are taken for granted, not appreciated for what you give?
If you said how you feel about it.. and nothing has changed.. then dear, maybe you’re watering dead plants.
The best way to see if this’s true, whatever you do, stop doing it. And eventually walk away.
If they notice your absence.. you must know why.. whether it’s because they NEED you, your attention to make them feel good about themselves or because they finally realised your value and they WANT you for who you are!
I’m begging you.. stop putting your energy, time into something that doesn’t nurture your soul. Stop giving your love, yourself to those who don’t see the value of holding your heart in their hands.
Because my dear, no matter how much love you have and give and no matter how much time you’ve put into your relationship.. you should never stay somewhere where you don’t feel appreciated. If someone doesn’t respect you.. you must respect yourself and walk away.
Choose the one who will hold your heart just as carefully as you hold theirs. Choose the relationship that fulfills you. Remember: love goes both ways.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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