Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love is acceptance.
Love.. people call love very strange ways.. very often it has nothing to do with love.
When you love someone you accept and love that person as they are. You don’t have a need to change their essence, but rather, by loving them you motivate them to become a better version of themselves, helping them to reach their full potential.
Acceptance means to love/accept their both sides.. someone’s “bright” and “dark” side. We all have it. Love is seeing the person completely imperfect and still wanting them.
Accept them and if you like them.. be with them or accept them and if you don’t like them, let them go. Just don’t tailor anyone to your needs.
You cannot love someone depending on your needs, so once your needs change so does your love. That’s selfishness, your egoic need.
And.. you can love someone and you can still dislike some things about them. Because love is understanding.
You understand that we are all different and we all come with some past ‘traumas’.
As long as you are aware and actively work on them, that’s what counts. But you have to communicate your feelings. You have to say what triggers you.
Communication is key.
In order to know how to love someone, firstly you have to accept and love yourself fully.. and that way you will know to choose the one who makes you feel comfortable in your own skin, letting you be you.
You want the one who feels like: With you, I’m safe. Safe enough to simply be me. Hold me safe in your arms. Unwrap my heart gently. This is my gift for you.
Love is when you are accepted and respected for who you are.
So.. Embrace yourself. Love yourself unconditionally. Be with someone who will love you just the way you are and who will motivate you to accept yourself completely, especially those parts of yourself you struggle to love.
We are already complete.
Key is to accept yourself. You don’t need anyone to complete you but to accept you completely.
Yet you can be the complete package and still be delivered to the wrong address. And that is ok.. that’s the part of journey.. someone will shake you, guessing what’s in, some will mishandle you.. but eventually you will end up at the right address.
This will happen only if you learn what home is – connecting with yourself, and learning what self love is.
That’s how you will know that person who loves you feels like a home..
Home is a feeling, not a place.. learn to listen to your heart.. do you feel loved for who you’re? Do you feel safe and protected? Aaaand do you feel peaceful?
Remember: to love someone is to accept them just the way they are, holding them safe in your arms. Never betray the one you love! Protect the one you love!
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina
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