Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love is not complicated, nor is it difficult. Don’t mix love with life. Life can be hard, but love is there to make it easier. The same as relationships, which should be: we take care of ourselves, each other and our relationship. End of story. Today’s relationships can be complicated only because people make it complicated.
Relationships complicated?
Life complicated?
Love complicated?
Says who???
No my dear friends.. none of these is complicated!
(Why) do you think relationships are complicated? Do you think life is complicated? Love complicated?
No, none of this needs to be complicated. IT WILL ONLY BE AS COMPLICATED AS YOU THINK IT IS COMPLICATED AND AS COMPLICATED AS YOU MAKE IT.
First of all, what does complicated mean to you? What is actually behind it?
Because being complicated is not the same as being difficult. Life can be hard. However, it is simple. But not easy!
Relationships are not complicated, which does not exclude that there will be difficult periods.
Love feels easy and not complicated. Also, you can love someone without liking everything about that person. Because love is acceptance!
That’s why when someone says ‘our relationship, marriage’ is complicated, I always want to ask what is complicated? If I go into a deeper conversation with that person, if there is a mutual desire, of course.. always, always behind that complexity lies either insincerity or fear!
And then instead of people taking responsibility for themselves and their actions.. they hide behind ‘it’s complicated’. It’s easier for them to switch to something else and say: love is complicated!
No, dear, some disease can have complications, but not those things that depend on you!
If things depend on you and you don’t do anything to make it easier but say it’s complicated.. it means that you’re complicating things, not that things are complicated!
For example, for a long-distance relationships. There are those who will say it didn’t work because long-distance relationships are complicated. There are those whose long-distance relationships deepened their love and where the relationship became even stronger.
Therefore, I will ask you how is a long-distance relationship in itself complicated, if there are those who have strengthened their relationship?
Means long distance relationships are not complicated. ‘It’s complicated’ serves as an excuse to get out of what you don’t want to nurture! ‘Complicated’ is not a reason but an excuse.
A long distance relationship has many challenges.. but no challenge can be stronger than the desire of both to stay together! When there’s a will, there’s a way!
PEOPLE COMPLICATE everything, and number one reason is lack of communication! Lack of honesty, respect.
‘It’s complicated’ occurs when people are not honest, when they don’t want to face and accept reality, when they live in fear and in their head with assumptions, overthinking, inventing possible and impossible scenarios and believing them.
Get out of your head and connect with yourself. Be honest with yourself.. because that’s the only way you can be honest with others! Don’t complicate difficult things, make them easier!
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏💙
Love and namaste,
Irina
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