Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Loving someone is accepting them. Completely.
Wanting to change someone to suit your needs, it’s not love, it’s selfishness. You can’t love some parts of someone that make you feel nice about yourself and some parts don’t.
‘She doesn’t try to change me and that is so important. She loves me for the mess I am. And that is all you can ask for. Two people who fall in love with each other chaos’
When you love someone you accept them as they are. There will be parts of them you will like more, and those you will like less.. but you shouldn’t expect them to change just because YOU DON’T LIKE those parts.
Loving someone is accepting them. Completely. You can’t halfass love. That’s not love.
When you accept and love the person as they are.. they will magically transform into a better person.
That’s the power of love.
Love brings out the best in someone.. encouraging them to be a better versions of themselves.. not the better version of how you expect them to be. Leave them or love them.
Everyone can “love” your light. Light is easy to love. Because, who doesn’t love light? Some will want to steal your light.. and some will appreciate it.
They will think they “love you” because of your light. But do they?
And.. what about your darkness? The one who stays with you when you’re a mess, helping you to get out of it.. that’s the only person who deserves your light. You see dear, you’re your light and your darkness and you should be loved as a whole, not as a half.
And.. wait for that kind of love.
But.. it looks to me as if people are proud of having superficial relationships, values.. saying they’re free spirits. If you think you’re a free spirit just because you jump from relationship to relationship.. you’re so wrong. You have completely mistaken the meaning of these words and their use. It’s nothing but shallow way of thinking and perceiving other people, love and relationships.
The hardest thing is to find real depth inside of people. It seems that people are longing to have weak connections, no commitment.
Being able to find someone who can spark your soul, someone you can click with so naturally is the best thing ever! I just don’t “understand” why people settle for anything less than this.
Why people strive for superficiality.. why? Simply because they look in others what they nurture within!
Hence why superficial, physical attraction is so common, people it mistaken for love.
You meet thousands of people.. who you find attractive but they all look like each other.. And then comes the day you meet that one UNIQUE person.. who will change your world forever! Someone who feels like a home!
You settle for things you give and you nurture within.. And if it is the superficiality that makes you happy, so be it! If not.. Wait for the one who will lit your soul on fire. Because loving someone is accepting them. Completely.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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