Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Let’s talk more about the difference between love and infatuation. Loving someone or who they are or falling in love with potential.
Make sure that you love someone for who they are, not for who you want them to be.
The power of love vs Falling in love = when people usually idealize their partners. When they look and fall in love with potential.. thinking he/she is the one. And that’s fine.. We’ve all been there.
But.. if you’re still there.. it’s about time to open your eyes but still follow your heart. Because we are only as blind as we want to be.
Ask yourself.. do you love someone for who they are ACCEPTING them as they are.. or you see in them things you want and things you need in your life expecting them to BE THAT ONE.. THE ONE WHO IS MADE FOR YOU?
Do you ignore red flags? If you do.. they will come forth in much uglier way.. and you will feel disappointed. But remember that your expectations are mostly the ones that disappoint you.
And if you decide to ‘open your eyes’ but still follow your heart you will understand what acceptance means..
It’s so funny tho.. Once you stop carrying for them.. they look so different.. they start to look so normal, ordinary. It’s like waking up from some beautiful dream, you never wanted to end. But it ended. And now you face your reality. You realize that it is your wish that made them special which put them on a pedestal..
And.. They weren’t the kind of special you need.. but your eyes made them special.. because you wanted them to be special. Maybe because you needed them to be special. And darling, that’s not love. It is a need.
Love and infatuation. Try to distinguish between two. Try to understand difference between “grow into” and “fall into”.
If you put them on pedestal.. let them really deserve that place. You two should look powerful together, a king and his queen.
If you want a king in your life you have to be a queen. And vice versa. So first and foremost, love yourself so much that you put yourself on the throne by living by high standards and values.. so that the one you choose to join you on the throne matches your values, vision.. and really deserves that place.
Make sure that you love them for who they are, not for who you want them to be.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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