Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Many people act immature..
‘Don’t get closer to someone just to make someone else jealous.. don’t distance just because yourself from someone it makes someone else feel better. Do what is right for you and kind to others.’
Many people act immature.. creating nothing but drama.
Some will try to drag you into their childish games, wanting your attention.. and very often only because they can have someone else’s attention.
Many will play around with you, telling you what you would like to hear, without really meaning and feeling it.
And.. ok, let’s say we’ve all experienced some of these things. We were on both sides. It’s part of growing up. Still, many seem to have remained with teenage behaviour even though they are in adulthood.
Oh, how ridiculous is to see adults behaving like a spoiled kid.
We should learn from our ‘mistakes’ so we don’t repeat them. We should learn the importance of true connection and commitment, among other things.
The thing is many are on that undeveloped, immature level with childish, irresponsible behaviour.. still seeking for attention refusing to work on themselves, acting irresponsible.
And this includes: They ignore the one they love, giving them a silent treatment or they make them jealous.. gaslighting, looking for something on the side when things don’t go well in a relationship etc.
Take the time to reflect. Are you doing this?
Remember.. By acting like this, you can only lose. You make your life miserable so as life of someone else.
Playing with other people’s emotions shows a lack of self-respect and respect for others. It’s also a sign of cowardice and low self-esteem. Seeking for attention is a wrong way to build your self-esteem. And it creates insecurities.
And insecurities kill the relationship.
Being on/off with someone, saying ‘yes’ but thinking ‘no’, making your partner jealous, being in a relationship but seeking attention by messaging others, awakening someone’s feelings without the intention of loving them.. are some of signals that your ego is your master and that you need some growing to do.
Whatever you do.. do it for the right reasons and do what is right! Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you!
Listen to your heart and act honestly. And you got to date someone who is willing to sit down and say let’s fix this instead of ignoring you. Choose to be respected and to receive the right kind of attention.
But remember, it takes two to tango!
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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