Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏

Masculinity isn’t toxic; the absence of it can be!

Wearing a pants doesn’t make you a man.
Going to the gym doesn’t make you masculine.
Buying gifts doesn’t make you gentleman.
Wearing a skirt doesn’t make you a woman.
Wearing makeup doesn’t make you feminine.
Tolerating misbehaviour does not make you a lady.

The world is in mess, among many other things, because people confuse what love, freedom mean. Hence why we live in a world full of effeminate men and women comparing to those men.

Competing and comparing are wrong parameters for measuring equality.

Equality should be based on fundamental things and rights: peace, respect, trust, love, freedom.
We are not here to compete with each other but to complement each other.

There’s a reason why man is a man and woman is a woman.
Superiority is not one of them.

As long as you use your ‘strength’ to make others feel inferior..
As long as you use the fear to manipulate..
As long as you use force to dominate..
As long as you pass your frustrations on others..
As long as you use people..
As long as you treat poorly others and those around you (family, partner, friends..)..
As long as you attack and steal peace of those you should protect..
You will neither be a man nor a woman. You will not be a person.

For me you will be nothing but a weak, unhappy individual, persona non grata.

Remember: Masculinity isn’t toxic. It’s men who aren’t masculine who are toxic. Weak little men use and abuse women instead of stepping up to lead and protect them. Our society is suffering from a shortage of real masculinity and it brings great harm to women and children who have no protectors.

Always check yourself. Be good human, do good and communicate love. And never, never tolerate mistreatment.

Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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Irina

So, let me introduce myself. My name is Irina Vujaklija and I was born in Belgrade on 31 January 1979. Who am I? Love. I know, you will roll your eyes.. But that is how it is. Discovering my true self wasn’t an easy process. Constantly working on myself, learning by seeking answers to many questions, I have managed to overcome very complicated life situations. Among other things, my severe motorcycle accident in 2004. A life altering moment in just one second.